How do you like them apples?

Shocking, of course. Conventional wisdom says that it’s the ladies who excel at Oscar-worthy fake orgasmic performances, while the boys are genuinely pleasured every time.

But not so, says this article. In fact, due to increased usage in anti-depressants, and other life’s stresses, reaching the Big O can occasionally be elusive for menfolk as well.

The cure? Same things as for the ladies:

1) Have sex only when you want to. Forcing yourself to have sex when you’re not in the mood can make you feel indignant and resentful. It’s not doing your partner any good either, since that feeling of closeness won’t be there if you’re mentally pulling away.

2) Relax. Stressing about erupting your sexual volcano only makes matters worse and the end result harder to achieve. Be in the moment, be present, and pay attention to how great what your partner is doing to you feels.

3) Don’t fake. Hey, sometimes it just ain’t gonna happen. So what? Heavens knows your partner will be good and ready to give you another shot. However, if there’s something in particular that’s keeping you from scaling Mount O, be brave enough to bring it up with your partner. He or she will definitely want to hear what you have to say. Indeed.

Hope this serves in reassuring you that we peeps are just humans. Humans who sometimes reach orgasm, and humans who sometimes don’t. C’est la vie, right? Be we can at least have fun trying.

Enjoy!

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Since tomorrow marks the famed Mother’s Day, this week’s Sexbolt Saturday is all about satisfying the mommies (and moms-to-be) of the world. So girls, read up, then grab your guy, sit him down, and tell him the biggest gift he could give you for Mom’s Day is to check these links. There’s good stuff in here, y’all. Promise.

Ready for some super female satisfaction? Thought so. Check this link for the best sexual positions for female orgasm.

Does the stress of life leave sex as just another item on your to-do list? Give some of these super-hot relaxation (read: massage and intimacy) tips from the true experts a go.

Trying to conceive? Here’s a group of links covering things from the best baby-dancing positions to timing issues to myths and taboos and more.

Already have a bun in the oven? Congrats! Now here’s how to get it on comfortably and with great results.

And finally, once a Mom has achieved the miracle of giving birth, her sexual needs suddenly change up a bit. Here’s a guy’s-eye view of intimacy in a postpartum world.

So there you have it. Sexy tips for sexy mamas. Enjoy and above all, Happy Mother’s Day!!!

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Use your hands for more than cleaning and yard work this weekend. Check out these How To Use Your Hand for Your Man’s Pleasure tips and tricks. Since these were written by a woman, be sure to read the comments section below the post to get the guys-eye point of view on a few of them.

Get some awesome intimacy tips from one of the nation’s top authorities on sexual health, Dr. Laura Berman.

Sit down at the ‘puter together for a look at these 10 Fun Facts About Sex. Totally random and totally crazy, these facts are good for a laugh – and are a guaranteed fire-starter!

And finally, if you (or your partner) is ready to shed the Good Girl in Bed image for good, check out the Prude’s Guide to Hotter Sex.

Get busy reading, then shut of the computer and…get busy!!

Happy Saturday! Enjoy!

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