Everyone has the ability to snoop around to find private information about their partner.  Technology has made snooping so easy with email, texting, Facebook, and tons of programs that can basically record anything that you are interested in recording.  Automatic log-ins and saved passwords give instant access to seemingly private accounts.  Even though the ability to snoop is sitting right in front of you, is the action worth risking your relationship?  When do you breach trust and when is it acceptable to invade each other’s privacy?  Unfortunately there is not a simple answer to these questions so I will discuss …read more

When it comes to the people in your life, do you find it difficult to create solid boundaries or do you find yourself agreeing or committing to requests that complicate your life?
What about people who make you uncomfortable in your own home? How do you alert them that you would rather they not visit or call you?
I’ve always been much better with the written word than a face-to-face or phone conversation. Recently I found myself in just such a position. I had to alert a relative who makes me feel so uncomfortable that I would rather she not visit or …read more