I’m finding that it’s not just tasks that I defer, but, sometimes I feel like I’m deferring life. Much of the time, it’s not really a conscious decision, it just happens during a busy evening. I won’t start a conversation with my husband because we need to get everyone in bed, or, we might not make the cookies for dessert, knowing that we can catch up later.

At the risk of sounding totally cheesy, I am trying to get better about making each day special in a small way, rather than designating some time in the future as a “goal date” for fun and happiness.

I have no concrete plans as to how to go about it, but, as with most things, awareness is the first step, and, I hope to get better at remembering, “Life is journey, not a destination”.

Maybe I’ll work on it this weekend.

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The journey