I was reading today about how Nicole Kidman opened up to Easy Living magazine about her marriage to Tom Cruise. Feeling like her career, her goals, were always secondary – the primary responsibility being to support Tom’s career first.
I can’t imagine she’s alone in feeling that way her marriage. While I’m fortunate enough to be in a marriage where there is an ebb and flow to who needs extra support on any given day, it’s never a question that we both have incredibly important things we want to accomplish.
“Traditional” spousal roles are still pretty common among many marriages – and …read more

Many times, you’ll hear everyone from career counseling coaches to Donald Trump say “You Have To Love What You Do.”
Yet, those words often sound so vague to me. What does it mean to LOVE what you do?
I think it means you have to be moved somehow…your soul has to has to scream…This Is It! This Is Me!
Or you have to drool.
I swear, had I not started The Pet Set, I would be in the fashion industry. I love my business…it’s part of my fabric (ha..get it?).
But when I see a Ralph Lauren gown or one …read more