When my sister was visiting a couple of weeks ago, we watched the finale of the Bachelorette with Jillian Harris . I can remember thinking that Ed Swiderski, the man whom Jillian ultimately picked, was a great catch. Handsome, but not overly pretty (I wonder about the guys with the washboard abs – doesn’t that kind of body take some crazy upkeep?), he’s got a good job, he got along great with her family (Her dad was pretty darn smitten), and he made her laugh.
My sister made the comment to my mom that, “Ed is a ‘Matt.’”  Matt is her husband. …read more

Have you ever read Dear Margo? Margo Howard is the daughter Ann Landers and she writes the same sort of advice column that Ann was famous for.
I read Ann Landers, Dear Abby, and pretty much any other advice columnist that I could get find back in the day. I’m not sure if it was the advice itself or the people telling their troubles that interested me the most. (Probably the troubles – I am naturally nosey). 
I was reading a recent column that covered a husband having an emotional affair with his boss. The emotional affair has the man – married …read more

It’s Friday afternoon.  Your mind is on the weekend, not so much on work.  How about killing  a little time with some quick reads?
Contemplating cohabitation?  Then I suggest first perusing the checklist at Living Together – Should You Move in With Your Guy? – Cosmopolitan.com.
Is it ever a good idea to give a cheat a second chance?  If you are on the fence then check out He Cheated – Do You Take Him Back or Dump Him? – Cosmopolitan.com 
What is your ideal “type?”  Find out who he is and where to find him in How to Reach Soul-Mate Status with Any Man – …read more