I’ve always heard a lot about closure. A person will say they “need closure” or someone will advise another person to “get closure.” I thought it was a load of BS. Nothing anyone said or could say was going to make it easier for me to move on. The circumstances that lead up to a breakup hurt and time was the only thing that would lessen that pain, not closure.
Closure represented a sort of door. Open door=pain. Closed door=healing.  No closed door ever truly changed the way I felt. It could not be that easy.
I was in a relationship that …read more

The past few weeks have been strangely eventful in dating and relationships land, don’t you agree? Well, at least, twas in my case — and a friend’s.
It’s funny how things are quiet and simple for a long time (think, years) then all of a sudden, you’d feel like the rug got pulled from under you. Lying there on the floor, you’d question fate, “WTF is going on?” Part of you wants to just laugh it off and the other wants to scream away the distraction. You can’t help but think (screaming in your head, mind you) about the probabilities that …read more

How many of us have ever had something to say, but never got the chance to – leaving us with a pile of unanswered questions and mountains of self-doubt on what we could have, should have, would have done – if we had only known?
Being dumped is a terrible thing – especially when there’s no closure!
Therapists have often said that writing is a great outlet for those pent up emotions and that’s the entire purpose behind So, There!
So There has been providing a great resource for closure since 1997 and is now home to over 2500 letters that were written …read more