One of the many discussions I’ve had with the boyfriend is the subject of cheating.
What constitutes cheating? What can be classified as cheating? Is cheating subjective or do we follow an unspoken rule? Do rules on cheating differ when two people are just dating than when these two are in a relationship?
Dodgy as it may sound, there are individuals who believe that cheating IS subjective. There’s always that context of “it depends” and the sad part about all of it is that these people don’t even realise that they are indeed being subjective.
For example, it has been raised that by …read more

I’ve heard stories of men sleeping around and have actually met a few of them (not because I slept with them, ok?! Heh.). And I’ve observed that not all carry the same set of “alibis” on why they lead that sort of lifestyle. Some of these men are quite normal in appearance and others fit the bill. Some you’d despise and others you’d still think aren’t sexual predators.
How do we understand these men who sleep around? Single guys or married men alike. Why does seem like our society accepts it as a norm? Finding out that they practice promiscuity, they …read more