Let’s be realistic and accept that couples fight.  If you have never had a disagreement with your partner then you probably aren’t expressing yourself or discussing serious issues.  Fights are so difficult but, if done right, they can have extremely successful results.  You want to feel comfortable expressing your viewpoint and you want to stand up for yourself, but what should you do if you get in a fight?

I just read the most amazing advice from the fabulous Dr. Phil about “How to Fight Fair.”  I strongly advise every couple to read these tips and discuss them together so you …read more

I was about to write this post about the importance of “picking your battles”, when I read Michelle’s 5 Tips For Better Communication and saw that this was one of her tips!  It is obviously an important issue to be addressed in relationships with significant others, spouses, children, friends, or anyone that you have ever disagreed with.
I have observed, and experienced personally, many times the problem of spending too much time and energy arguing about issues that those involved should probably just let slide.  Think before you speak and don’t worry yourself over small issues!  It sounds easy to offer …read more