Everyone has the ability to snoop around to find private information about their partner.  Technology has made snooping so easy with email, texting, Facebook, and tons of programs that can basically record anything that you are interested in recording.  Automatic log-ins and saved passwords give instant access to seemingly private accounts.  Even though the ability to snoop is sitting right in front of you, is the action worth risking your relationship?  When do you breach trust and when is it acceptable to invade each other’s privacy?  Unfortunately there is not a simple answer to these questions so I will discuss …read more

From the book “Back To Basics” (though I’m certain these definitions might be found anywhere…)
To be used as a guide for a Fourth Step – Liabilities and their definitions.
Resentment – “When we are angry or bitter toward someone for an extended period of time over some real or imagined insult, we are feeling resentment. It is a hostile or indignant attitude in response to an alleged affront or personal injury.”
False Pride – “is either feeling better than or less than someone else. Feelings of superiority include prejudice about race, education or religious beliefs, and sarcasm – putting someone else down …read more

Can you recognize the distinct meaning of “Nothing Less?”
Nothing, nada, zilch, zero, not one iota, less!
From “There Is A Solution”
“Almost none of us liked the self-searching, the leveling of our pride, the confession of shortcomings which the process requires for its successful consummation.”
PLEASE! Pay Attention! This sentence states very, VERY clearly that without the Twelve Steps, thoroughly and completely – the process of recovery will NOT be successful!
Honesty Truthfulness