Maybe you too saw the Oprah’s on Hormones?
It occurs to me, watching all those angry, frustrated, fed-up women. . .
Perhaps it is only hormones that makes women put up with so much of everyone’s shit.
Maybe, when we’re in our mid-to-late late 30s, 40s, and 50s – we’ve had enough already.
Perhaps it’s the lack of estrogen that makes women finally stop. Putting up with the world’s shit, I mean.

A tip for your self esteem during a lifestyle change. . .
Don’t weigh-in if you’re on your period and experiencing the PMS Pain Body. If you do – you will take it personally that you’re right back where you started.
Take the week off. Not from exercise – because I’ve found that if you are carrying the pain of all women, everywhere, since the dawn of time – that vigorous exercise and yoga is a really good thing to do with all that negative energy. The endorphins to the brain are priceless too.
But, definately boycott the scale …read more

I’ve been reading Eckhart Tolle’s book, The Power of Now.

He introduces the idea of a Pain Body. The Pain Body is also discussed in great detail in his other book A New Earth.

Basically, he says that one part of the human condition is a pain body. We have personal pain bodies that result from things that happen specifically to us. But, we also have collective pain bodies that come from being members of a group – women, for instance.

Tolle says that because of several thousand years of oppression, repression, violence, rape, battery, harassment, slavery and sexism baby girls are born …read more

At RealAge.com you log on and take a test about your exercise, eating habits, vitamins and supplements, social habits, diseases or illnesses and vices like smoking and drinking.
I updated my Real Age this week and I’ve gotten SEVEN YEARS YOUNGER as a result of my lifestyle changes in the last two years. Since last year I’ve reduced my Real Age by nearly THREE years.
Chronologically I am 35.4 years old, yet my Real Age is only 32.5.
When I began my dramatic lifestyle change two years ago, I took the Real Age test. I was 33 at the time, …read more

Whatever they are saying about the economy I’m not seeing the negatives.
Everywhere I look there is potential and opportunity.
There’s an Economic Women’s Revolution going on right now in the world and we’re going to see women explode onto the landscape. In large part because so much business can be done on the Internet. More and more of us are asking, Why not me? Why don’t I start that business I’ve always dreamed of?
This year, women will stop the futile wait for The Market to give us equal pay and we’ll create our own opportunity. We’ll create jobs …read more

Last year I wrote about my resolution to get organized in a post titled Anal Retentive Compulsions in 2008.

In July I saw that people were still reading that post and took another look. Then I cleaned up and organized my office – which was still a mess – and posted the transformation in Resolutions Revisited.

If, 6 months later you realize that people are going to hold you accountable it’s a good motivation not to fail. To fail is hard on the soul – to fail in public is enough to make me clean my room and get organized like I …read more

So, I have this bad-ass book club and we read one book a month.
The best part is not the book.
The best part is the company.
This month we’re having a Pure Romance Party. And of course, by “romance” I mean “sex props” party.
If you go to the website you just enter in your zip code and a Sex Toy Lady – like the Tupperware and Mary Kay lady – will come to your party and show you the goods.

I may be enticed to become a dealer myself – I think I’d be exceptionally good at it. Can you think …read more

I’m posting today because I’m waffling on NaBloPaMo – doing a blog post every day for 30 days. I want to think about it for a few days before I commit completely.
On the one hand I’m working on Saying NO. There are a million good things I must choose not to participate in so I can be effective at the things I REALLY want to do most. More blog posts won’t necessarily lead to where I’m trying to go. A book deal, monthly column in Oprah Magazine, speaking at next year’s Women’s Conference, being actively recruited to write in …read more

Watch this for instant goose bumps and empowerment, The Women’s Conference.
Main stage highlights include the Dalai Lama, Oprah, Sarah Ferguson, Queen Rania of Jordan, Tony Blair, Tim Russert, Billie Jean King and Eunice Kennedy Shriver.

I want to speak there someday. My dreams are BIG!

Check out the website, www.californiawomen.org and see what kind of power awaits women in this lifetime.

You can participate in The Women’s Conference on this podcast.

Many of the people at this conference declared that women will be the force of change in this country. I know that to be true.

Unleash your inner power Ladies!

I wish I had been …read more

In the battle over our children – parents versus child rapists and child pornograhers – who would you place your bet on?

It seemed child pornographers and clubs like NAMBLA, the North American Man Boy Love Association, whose declared “hobby” is to rape children were winning. With 300,000 known predators the FBI was monitoring, but not arresting or prosecuting it seemed the only rational response was to run and hide.

But, hide where? They wear “good guy” camouflage and mingle among us, volunteering to coach soccer teams, lead the youth Sunday School, and play the part of the perfect step-parent or boyfriend …read more