In 1993, I separated from my husband. It wasn’t a clean break and I won’t go into details, but there were still a lot of unresolved feelings. In the Summer of 1997, we had a short reconciliation which resulted in the birth of my youngest daughter. By the Fall of 1997, we cut the ties finally. 
Prior to reconciling, I felt compelled to somehow work things out with him. After the birth of Sarah, I no longer felt that way. I think that she was our “unfinished business.”  Since 1998, I’ve never looked back and I am 100% content with the …read more