Sometimes it’s hard to decipher your relationship with your boyfriend’s guy friends.  A lot of times your natural instinct results in some bad behavior, but if you determine the balance in the situation then you can keep the situation under control.  There are lots of elements that make this a delicate situation, but I think that it’s very important to address it correctly to ensure a good balance in your relationship.

Gaining Approval – You obviously want the guy friends to like you.  You know their opinion matters, so you want it to be a positive one.  But the stress that …read more

If a man finds you attractive, you cannot be friends.
Thoughts? Opinions?
Uh, violent reactions perhaps?
I’m one of them who thinks that it is possible to be just friends with a guy. But I have to admit that if we are to bring “attraction” into the equation, it can definitely complicate the friendship. Hands down. Especially when everything’s one-sided. Ugh. Train-wreck.
Here’s the argument.

I actually went ahead and did what the he said I should do to “ease my doubts” about this theory. I asked the questions and I got an almost-verbatim set of responses.