We talk each day and yet have you thought about how we take the human voice for granted? When someone dies, you miss their voice….you still have their love….yet one thing I miss the most is their voice. I know … More
I wrote about Why Life (and Death) is simple really and was touched by a comment from Leslie a regular commenter on the blog. I replied to her grief by saying “We will have good and bad times, it is … More
Anniversaries of losing someone is strange. Why is any day any more important than any other…when missing someone? Time in some ways helps you cope with anniversaries but never takes away the pain. I also find that the biggest benefit … More
The comments to Don’t Forget the Good Times really touched my heart. Anniversaries are tough and I thought I would share how I cope…as I said in my comment to the blog post “Pain makes me realise my heart is … More
I was wondering about heartache, and wondering if people can die from a broken heart. When I googled the idea, I came across this great article on emotional pain at the BBC website. I want to pick out a few … More
When I look back at the grief, I sometimes wonder whether why we move on slowly is because grief can feel warm. Somehow holding on to that grief, or holding the pain close can be comforting? Is that just me … More
I know that many of us are finding September a tough month as we “celebrate” anniversaries – mixed with those feelings,I keep opening the paper and seeing the most awful tragedies The shooting in Finland of 10 studentsÂ Hurricanes across … More
I was speaking to mum last night and was suddenly struck by much she is doing since the death of dad. She misses him hugely, and they were devoted to each other, that made her grief hard, the bereavement process … More
Regular readers will know that I love quotes, I love quotes that help you think, help inspire you to think differently. When you are going through grief, words can really help in coming to terms with life and the heartache … More
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If you are reading Widows Quest, you know the meaning of heartfelt pain. Pain hurts but the more I think about the real meaning of pain – I think that it is there for a reason. It is there because … More
…I received a heart wrenching email from someone who was ready to finish it all, ready to give in to the grief and bring an end to the heartache. I can so understand that feeling, I can so understand how … More
2008 is here and I wish you all a wonderful year. This year is our chance to rebuild our lives and rebuild the Â happiness around us. To do that, we need to lose that guilt over enjoying ourselves as … More
Have you noticed how the small things can really affect you on a daily basis? I am learning to cope with the loss of a partner, a friend – that coping is better on some days rather than others but … More
Today has been one of those days again! I do so well, I write this blog in a positive way to show that there is a way through grief or loss. Yet today my sadness is welling inside, I just … More