I came across this theory that knitting helps keep you ‘celibate’ during that stage in your dating life wherein you just want to take a step back and re-assess things.
Sometimes, we do dive into the whole dating scene head first, which as you would expect will incur unnecessary wounds and headaches (to say the least). And as the years pass, meeting one person after the other. Experiencing heartbreaks which will drain you to the point that you would want to drop everything for a while, focus your energies on something else — a hobby, a sport — as long …read more

Define love please.
How would you define this most sought-after emotion known to man?
I had spent countless moons trying to decipher the mystery of it. I have come to the conclusion that it’s simple really. I was just looking at it too closely and over-analysing it. Heh.
I am aware that my meager attempt of a definition will prove to be unsatisfactory to some if not most but I just want you guys to keep an open mind and know that I have found some sort of peace with the knowledge I now possess. Hehehe.

Love is a decision.
See… I told you it’s …read more

than to have never loved at all?
Is there anyone who really believes that garbage? Or are you like me and believe it’s one of those old clichés that people say just to get a person to shutup when they’ve had their heart stepped on like a June bug in July and are stuck in whine mode.
Perhaps I’m a bit too cynical when it comes to love, but I honestly don’t know of one ex that was truly worth the pain of heartbreak for me to say I was better off because of it. Nope, not one!
Oh sure, I …read more