The choices we make in life may not always be the choices we set out to make, nor may they be the choices we want to make.
But ultimately, they are the choices we make and the choices we live with.  After only one infertility treatment my husband and I made a choice to stop treatments. Not only did we not have the finances but we also did not have the emotional or physical strength to do it again. Maybe that makes us weak but the process was pretty strenuous. In fact, I don’t know how people do it more than …read more

I have been working on this post all day and I have been hesitant to click the publish button because I don’t know how it will be perceived. Words are very unpredictable. But I am taking the chance because I do want my voice to be heard; I just don’t want to be misunderstood.
Adoption has become a very controversial topic lately not only because of posts like this but even in the general public when people like Madonna adopt children who have parents still in the picture (and not ready to relinquish).
My husband and I adopted because we are …read more