“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”
— James Baldwin
I reckon every individual has his or her own set of insecurities. They carry these insecurities with them as they enter relationships; may affect their choice of a mate, manner of relating, or how they attract a prospect.
Most of us wish to find love at one point in our lives. However, we are plagued with self-doubts, which often hinder its realisation. Hence, we resort to masks. Pretense. Layers upon layers of concealers to hide the blemishes that causes you to cringe at …read more

Are there really women out there who can’t afford to be romantic?
I’ve heard women classified as desperate by people when they’ve reached the threshold of eligibility, ergo, making them spinsters if not, candidates, at least.
Tell me, is there a definitive deadline for someone to choose a mate before labeling her a spinster?
Once a woman sees this possibility, it scares her. It then creates a domino effect of bad choices, one jerk after the other. Making her believe in the lie that she has to grab what’s there for the taking. It’s sad, really.
What makes a woman lose her right to …read more

Everyone has their own set of insecurities, may it be physically, mentally, and yes — financially. Everyone either tries to deal with them or worse, hide them. Of course, there’s the matter of people unaware of their insecurities, too. And that poses a huge weak point that, sadly, others take advantage of.
In the dating scene, you will encounter varied ways on how a guy or a girl would prostitute themselves just because of an insecurity. And like I said, there will be people who actually zone in on those insecurities and use them to their advantage.
One article that I came …read more