I’ve been a fan of Britney Spears ever since she danced down that school hallway in “Hit Me Baby, One More Time.” These day, when I go running, she’s singing about a “Womanizer” in my ears, helping me to run just a bit faster, feuled with righteous indignation on behalf of the womanized.

When she’s faltered, I’ve worried, because …. well, I’m a Mom and I tend to worry. It’s part of my job description.  (Perusing dailt to-do list ….worried about the troubled, the lost, the struggling …..check.)

Britney recently did an interview with Rolling Stone where she is described as “…shyer, more guarded, remote — like the old Britney but with the volume turned way down.”  I guess that’s what happens when a young star has such a public melt down – she learns to hold her cards closer to her chest.

In an excerpt from the magazine that I read here, Britney talks about her new lifestyle of hard-working days and turning-in-early nights.

And when she does find time to go on a date, Spears says the experience makes her wish she had just stayed home.

Oh, Britney, I so get this one. Have you ever had one of those dates where you just wished you were at home on the couch?  You finish the date and think, “Okay, I’m good, I did my duty. That’s the last one of those I have to do for the next six months.”

“Right when we got there, we just knew it was just bad,” Spears tells Rolling Stone of one recent bad date. “He looked like an older version of Harry Potter, but skinnier. … So I had to get dessert first.”

Harry Potter? Does she mean the actual wizard? Or the actor Daniel Radcliffe?  That kid is adorable.  I’ll go out with the older Harry Potter. What’s his number? She needed desert because he was skinny?  Oh, well, I look for any excuse to go for the desert, as well.

“And the other date I had, the guy was really, really tall and a lot older. … We’re trying to ask him questions, like, ‘OK, you’re into martial arts, so what kind of martial arts are you into?’ And he was like, ‘Oh, all kinds.’”

Who is this “we”? Who is going on these dates with her?  And why are they quizzing these men? I imagine it would be stressful enough to go on a date with an international superstar (who underwent a very public breakdown), but to then have to answer to her “panel” of……experts? very large bodyguards? giggling girlfriends? managerial team? dad? well, that would suck. (And probably put me off dating international superstars for awhile).

Why not wait until she is well enough to go out on her own?  And who is picking these men?  She obviously does not know them, is surprised by their Harry Potter-ness and lack of knowledge in the specific forms of the martial arts.  Maybe now is not the right time to date? How many different areas does she need to come-back in, at the same time? 

Dating requires a certain amount of time and attention to get it right. Otherwise you are just going through the motions. You are just eating another piece of cheesecake with yet another Harry Potter look-alike. Does a busy lady like Britney Spears have time to go through the motions? 

I say, take your time, Britney. The dating world isn’t going anywhere. Britney Spears will always be able to find a date if she seeks one. Pushing things will only skew your point of view and wouldn’t you rather your next boyfriend be a little more JT and a lot less KFed?  

Take a look at this and then tell me what you think – should Britney wait until she has the time and opportunity to date without the “we”?  Guys, would you date Britney Spears? 

 Britney image credit – Sephora.com

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Celebrity Dating – Britney Spears and the “We” Step Out

Britney Spears has been spotted out with an obvious new suitor. Given that she’s now facing being a single parent and is only separated from Kevin Federline – do you think she’s jumped back in the water too quickly?

What are your views on dating after divorce? Dating with children?

As a former single mom and divorcee, I can sum in up rather quickly -

I never dated anyone who wasn’t divorced at least one full year. Though I was tricked a couple of times. That lie ended the relationship as quickly as it started.

After a breakup from a ‘boyfriend’ – I allowed myself ample time to heal or get over the issues attached to that relationship and it’s breakup. If not, I was going to be taking emotional baggage into the next relationship that the new person did not deserve.

Now, what about you? What about Britney?

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Britney Spears – Is it too soon to date?