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I was blown away even more when I told my husband and he told me it wasn’t a shock to hear the girl had been raped in the girl’s bathroom, that it had become a common thing to have sex in the bathroom at school, however it was disgusting that she’d been raped and he hoped the father took justice. Boy was I behind the times.  This morning though, I watched as young girls talked so openly about oral sex and how it has become more popular than that first kiss.

One girl said, “I ended up having sex with more than one person that night and then in the morning I was trying to get morning-after pills,” one of the girls said. “I was, like, 14 at the time.”

Another stated, “Oral sex to me, isn’t really that big of a deal.”

But the one that surprised me, “5 minutes for $100, well I’m going to probably do it with them anyways because they are good looking. Why not get paid for it?”

Believe it or not, some girls are even doing prostitution and you wouldn’t even know it because they are all home before dinner. Some girls are having sex to better their grades, become popular, for money and clothing/stuff.  During the video below they say 54% of teen girls between 15-19 will have oral sex.  What’s worse was learning that teens think of oral sex as nothing more than a kiss and that a kiss is no longer an intimate thing. Do you remember that first kiss you had? I can tell you when, where and how old I was. Today, many kids have forgotten that first kiss as it happened when they were young and before all the other kisses, sex and oral sex. But they can probably tell you the first time they had an orgy/oral sex, etc.

Girls at the age of 11 are going to sex parties and actually engaging in them. Not just sitting around watching or playing dress up, putting make up on etc, these days it is much more grown up than that. No longer is it spin the bottle for that first kiss, now it gets more involved than that. Could you imagine walking in on your son or daughter doing this? What about finding out that they attended one of these parties?

Signs he/she may be doing it:

-  Child is coming home with items you didn’t buy.
-  Child has more money then you’ve given him/her.

Those are just two things. Now that you’ve read this, what do you think? Do you have the type of communication where you will know that your child is doing this? Or will you be just as shocked as some of the mothers that saw this video were?

http://www.abcnews.go.com/GMA/Parenting/story?id=7693121&page=1

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Teens: Oral Sex is the New Goodnight Kiss

I know, I’m despising them for one very simple reason: I’m not getting kissed like that. I don’t know if I’ve been kissed like that in a very long time. In fact, I can sit here and quite fondly remember when I was kissed like that, by whom, and how much I absolutely fell in love with him when he did kiss me like that. And it was like, 9 years ago.

But I’m not being kissed like that NOW.
I haven’t been in a long time.

Damn these friggin’ romantic-y mushy love stuff commercials.

I know they’re ploy, too. They want me, little Miss Singledom, to sit here and think, “Oh wow, I should buy that crap because when I do, I’ll get kissed, just. Like. That.”

You know what? Eff them. I happen to have very pretty lips, soft and full. Any man would melt at the sheer thought of being able to kiss my lips. And I don’t need no stinkin’ Nivea lip balm to do it either, I tell ya.

Grr.

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Nivea Kiss Commercials

Make the first move. If you lead the way, you are more likely to be able to set the tone kissing style-wise.  I know it’s not the traditional way to go about things, but I’m a go-for-it girl from way back and I’ve never kissed someone first and not been glad that I did.  If it’s great – wonderful – if it’s not, well then you decide if you’ve got something to work with. 

Remember that there’s a time and place for everything and an uncomfortable kiss may have less to do with lips and more to do with nerves.  Could he just be nervous?  If so, then give the boy another chance. 

Communicate your kissing desires.  Yes, this can be tricky, but if you say something simple like, “Lets take this slow,” you might find that it works. Try a suggestion, not an actual tutorial, but……..

If things are really not going well, you might send him an anonymous tip to check out French Kissing Resources which features a list of how-to links.

Remember, practice makes perfect.  For more ideas,  I suggest How to Deal With a Bad Kisser – wikiHow  and  5 Ways to Fix a Terrible Kisser.

I wish you good luck and great kisses!

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Help: He’s a Bad Kisser

Suite101.com has a thorough article covering the anthropological origins of the kiss:

So who invented kissing? Anthropologists think kissing’s origins are to be found in primitive times when mothers chewed food and transferred it directly from their mouths to their babies’ mouths, a method of preparing baby food that is still practiced in some cultures today. Another theory comes from the Ziller Valley of Central Europe where pre-chewed tobacco was exchanged between males and females. The man would hold a piece of tobacco was exchanged between males and females. The man would hold a piece of tobacco between his teeth and invite a girl to grasp it with her teeth which would cause her to press her mouth on his.

Whenever or wherever the kiss first came about, it’s always nice to relive our first experiences with it. And we’re interested to know how your first kiss came about, and how it was. Feel free to share by commenting below.

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The Origins of the Kiss

Yes. Lovapalooza is an annual event held all over the world on Valentine’s Day (or on any date close to it) and its sole purpose is to break a Guinness World Record by gathering as much couples as they can and have them kiss for a minute. (Current world record is around 5,300++ couples, I think)

In my country, it’s considered the biggest and most romantic kissing festival. The Lovapalooza 2007 was held at the SM Mall of Asia in Pasay City.

Newsbit: Lovapalooza 2005

Now, I’m a lot curious as to how many couples will participate in an event like this one. Has any of you ever been in one of these things? Come on — share!

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Time For Some Lovapalooza!