Lylah M. Alphonse brought up a working parent aspect I hadn’t thought of: does being a stepmother make you “any less” of a working mother?
I’ve never been a step parent, but I do know enough to be shocked when she wrote about people assuming she had all kinds of time to work extra since she wasn’t “really a parent”.
Everyone’s situation is different, I’m sure, but if you’re married to someone who brought young kids into the marriage, then you are parenting them. Your schedule may be different from someone else’s if the kids aren’t with you full time, but the …read more