The holiday weekend gave Kerri and I a number of opportunities to play games with neighbors, and this question stems directly from a “disagreement” we had with another couple this weekend. Simply put: How do you sort playing cards? Assuming you order them, there are two likely possibilities. Looking at your hand and reading from left to right you either see:
A – K – Q – J – 10 – 9
or you see:
9 – 10 – J – Q – K – A
Vote below or in the sidebar. Be warned: there is a correct answer, one which Kerri and I …read more

Time to wrap up the June poll, and Kerri and I are both pleased to see the results.
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It looks like we are taking to heart the admonition that communication is the foundation of a good relationship. I wholeheartedly agree with that sentiment. Kerri and I go through ebbs and flows in the quantity of our communication, and it never takes long for us to feel the change. We can both sense the gap forming between us, even if it’s just a little one. It’s been said that quantity time is a prerequisite for quality time.
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Just a day left to vote in this month’s poll. I’m encouraged by both the number of responses and the results so far. We’ll start a new poll tomorrow. Any suggestions on the topic?
Til then, make sure your voice is hear this month!
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The month is half over, so it’s time to check in on the poll and remind you to vote.
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It’s good to see so many of you make significant time to talk with your spouses. Things ebb and flow with Kerri and me depending on how busy life is, but rarely are we out of touch with each other. Before it ever goes to far one of us will say something, and we’ll clear the calendar for a few days to reconnect.
If you haven’t voted, there is still time. If you have, invite a friend over to vote, too!

Well, it seems that the results of the poll are fairly conclusive. Most seem to be with the person that they believe to be their true love. I’m not surprised by that. Maybe just because I’m a romantic, or maybe because I’ve been successfully brainwashed by Hallmark and Hollywood. Either way, that’s me.
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Still, there are a significant number of voters who think that the “love of your life” concept doesn’t matter, or that they know that the love of their life is/was someone else. I’m not sure how I process that bit. I think …read more

We’re two-thirds of the way through May, but there’s still time to vote in this month’s poll. So far I’m not surprised by the presumptive winner, but there are enough votes in the other categories to pique my interest. So get out there, Intrepid Readers. Presidential Primary Season may be ending but you can still vote in the Marriage Actually monthly poll!
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Thanks to everyone who voted in last month’s poll. Results are below, and I guess there isn’t anything that surprises me too much. The 5-10 and “No kids” sections are higher than I anticipated, but too askew. Kerri and I were in the 2-5 year category. We got married in 1997, and Samantha was born in 2001. My only caution to those who are planning on waiting several years: Just because you’re ready, it doesn’t mean you get pregnant. It took us about 18 months before we got pregnant. When you wait to start trying, you set a lower limit… …read more

If you haven’t voted yet in our April poll, there is still time. I’ll be wrapping it up this weekend and introducing our May poll. How about one last push to get us over the 100 vote mark!
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It’s Tax Day! Here’s hoping you won’t be one of those sitting in line at the post office trying to mail everything at the last minute.
It’s also the middle of the month, so I thought I’d take a minute to mention the current poll. The participation has been amazing, and I’m wondering if we can’t shoot for 100 total votes by month’s end. So, tell a friend and remember the motto: Vote early and vote often!
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Time for a new poll. Kerri’s in the kitchen icing cookies for a baby shower this weekend, so I’m gonna ask about kids.
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Vote early. Vote often. And tell your friends!
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