It’s actually not a bad idea if you think of it. What do you really need in a site to find someone you can date anyway? Isn’t it all about finding a person whom you can connect with?

I’ve got to admit that I have gone on dates with people I met through sites like these — social networking sites, I mean. I can’t say it’s 100% better than online dating sites, it’s just another alternative to finding Mr. Right.

What I like about the dates I’ve gone to are the idea that I’m not “forced” to be romantic with them right away because all of these dates are of platonic nature, er, at least, on my part and that they are guys I’ve actually interacted with and find something in common through the sites.

I guess when I tried the online dating sites, I’m pressured by the idea that the guys expect me to go into dating and the whole she-bang straight away. I’m under the impression that the expectations are solely directed toward creating a romantic relationship. I may be at fault here but, hey, these sites aren’t called online dating sites for nothing, right?

Bottomline is perhaps if you’re not comfortable with the idea of meeting dates online, social networking sites are a good option for you. At the very least you’ll be meeting new friends you can simply hang out with if you’re not in the mood for dating just yet.

What do you think?

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Dating and Social Networking

I’ve been a Skype user for quite a while now. Though, I’ve never considered it as a medium to meet the man of my dreams just for the reason that I only use it for personal [family & friends] and work reasons.

When I came across this article at the LA Times and read the dating stories that Skype helped bridge, I’m amazed at the possibilities and with such positive results, too!

“Software like Skype is creating a world of online dating that enables relationships between people who live all over the globe, some of whom may never meet in person. By allowing free phone calls between those who share a common language and a high-speed Internet hookup, Skype has spawned love connections between Belgians and Japanese, Germans and Israelis, Americans and Egyptians and even a Guatemalan nail technician and a Canadian member of the Raelians, a group that advocates human cloning.” — LA Times

Another plus about using this alternative is getting to see and talk to the other person even if you’re thousand of miles apart. You’re no longer limited to chatting and emails. Hearing the other person’s voice creates a different feel to the relationship that the two of you are having. Plus you can actually create interesting online dates like what the couple shared in the article, watching a movie together over Skype!

So, if you want to try something new or not go through the typical dating sites, perhaps, this idea may provide you with an opportunity to meet Mr. or Miss Right. Just download the software at Skype.com and set your status to Skype Me or even join the Skype Me forums to let them interested suitors into your life online. Best bit — it’s free.

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Using Skype in Dating Online

That’s what many single men in that age group are finding out. Dating now has become a challenge compared with when they were in their 20s.

John Drysdale, 46, divorced in 2001. He says finding someone his age who is educated, single and ready to settle down is a rare thing.

Drysdale turned to Table for Two, a dating service agency, to help him get his game back.

“It helped save me a lot of time because the people they match you with already met the bulk of my criteria,” he says.

Jordan Vang of St. Paul is single and looking for the right woman to settle down with. At 42, he says it’s harder to even find someone who would want to date someone his age.

“Most women I know always want someone younger,” he says. “And being divorced doesn’t help much, either.”

Source

Table for Two is a premier dating service located in Minnesota. Their statement speaks loud and clear – It’s not about dates - It’s about results.

They connect well-matched singles that might not otherwise meet.

When you become a Table for Two client, you receive …

• 1-2 hour personal consultation with an expert Table for Two interviewer.
• A custom plan that outlines what you expect from us, tailored for your lifestyle and needs.
• Arranged dates with hand-picked matches based on your specific preferences.
• Unlimited potential with no restrictions on the number of people you meet … you’re purchasing time, not dates.
• Access to the best local singles … individuals who are interested in results, not just dates.
• Extensive counsel, coaching and follow-up from a Table for Two staff expert.
• Client concierge services available only to Table for Two clients. Learn more.
• 20 minute phone coaching session with relationship expert: Dr. Jan Hoistad
• 12 months of “active” search time and 12 months of “hold” time.

The Table for Two team claims to have created the most comfortable, personal and professional approach to finding the right someone for everyone.It sounds as if the people of Minnesota are quite lucky to have a business like Table for 2 working so hard on their behalf.

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Guys over 40 find dating daunting, discouraging

This certainly brings a whole new meaning to the phrase, “dating around” and kicks the idea of personal ads up a notch. Hehehe.

I actually spent a considerable amount of time perusing the blog. I’m surprised at how interesting he made his dates sound. [Not that's it's NOT possible, okay?] Properly documented by photos and videos. But, of course, I have to note that these were done with consent from his dates, otherwise, he would respect their privacy. Yes. He’s a real gentleman about this whole thing because he’s actually serious with his intentions.

So far, it has been 10 dates from different parts of the world and he’s heading to Spain for his next one. Cool, eh?

You can check his Bio, FAQs [be sure to watch the video!] and perhaps the Offers? And as for the Rules? Allan said that there’s none! Teehee.

This method is certainly not new to me since I read the book, Around the World in 80 Dates by Jennifer Cox. However, this time it’s from a male’s point of view.

Hmmm. I wonder if I should jump in the bandwagon and start a blog of my own? Or perhaps I could just ask Allan out. Hahaha. What would he think of dating a blogger? Would he find it interesting enough to go halfway across the globe and date lil’ ol’ me? What d’ya think? Teehee.

Anyone else interested to give him a go? Go ask him out. Teehee.

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Are You My Wife?

Flickr is a digital photo sharing website and web services suite, and an online community platform, which is generally considered an example of a Web 2.0 application. [Wikipedia]

In his post, he narrated the relevant events in their relationship like how and where they met online, how, when and where they met offline, and, finally, news of their engagement that happened a few days ago. Of course, he also provided links to photos that can help give us a picture of how real they are. [You can check the post here.]

Now, Happy Dave is truly happy and even extends his gratitude to the very existence of Flickr, without which he wouldn’t have Princess Valium in his life.

Well done, Flickr!

And congratulations to the couple!

*Thanks for the tip, Matt.

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An Engagement At Flickr

In my own personal experience, I’ve had very positive and uplifting encounters during my single years and feel that I’ve made wonderful friends I would have never met had I not begun looking for love online.

Whether looking for love online or simply dipping your toes in the social networking waters, we’d love to hear your personal reasons for exploring the online possibilities of meeting others.  Consider answering the following questions -

Where did you start meeting people online?  Dating site?  Social Network?  Chat?

Why did you decide to explore these methods of meeting people?

How has your own experience been?

Do you recommend meeting people online to your friends and family?

Share your favorite online meeting story – good/bad – dating/friends – whatever the case may be.

Shake it up and have fun!

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What attracts you to dating online?