If you are out with your girlfriends and open to meeting someone new don’t ”huddle” together. It intimidates men. I can see why it would intimidate them, but honestly, the word “huddle” brings to mind a group of giggly high school girls. Kind of a silly word.

Scan the room like Ben Roethlisberger. “Huddling behavior means they’re closed to outsiders,” says Dennie Hughes, a relationship expert and the author of Dateworthy. Your best bet is an outward-facing group or a line of women doing their own scanning. Aim for groups of three women or more, so no one ends up alone.

The idea is to charm the group and thereby charm the girl you are interested in. The guy will mirror the group’s behavior, chat about what they are watching or listening to, possibly take song requests if there’s a juke box.  It makes a lot of sense and I’m thinking it could work just as well for women. 

People say things like, “I don’t want to meet someone in a bar,” or “I would never try online dating,” or ….well there are a multitude of excuses out there. Why? Why not meet someone in a bar?  Or online?  Why not be open to meeting people anywhere, at any time?  

How about you – would you approach a group of “outward facing” men and ask them how they were enjoying the game/match/song?  Do you have rules about where it’s appropriate to meet people? If you did meet someone in a bar, would you be embarrassed to admit it? 

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