If you are out with your girlfriends and open to meeting someone new don’t ”huddle” together. It intimidates men. I can see why it would intimidate them, but honestly, the word “huddle” brings to mind a group of giggly high school girls. Kind of a silly word.

Scan the room like Ben Roethlisberger. “Huddling behavior means they’re closed to outsiders,” says Dennie Hughes, a relationship expert and the author of Dateworthy. Your best bet is an outward-facing group or a line of women doing their own scanning. Aim for groups of three women or more, so no one ends up alone.

The idea is to charm the group and thereby charm the girl you are interested in. The guy will mirror the group’s behavior, chat about what they are watching or listening to, possibly take song requests if there’s a juke box.  It makes a lot of sense and I’m thinking it could work just as well for women. 

People say things like, “I don’t want to meet someone in a bar,” or “I would never try online dating,” or ….well there are a multitude of excuses out there. Why? Why not meet someone in a bar?  Or online?  Why not be open to meeting people anywhere, at any time?  

How about you – would you approach a group of “outward facing” men and ask them how they were enjoying the game/match/song?  Do you have rules about where it’s appropriate to meet people? If you did meet someone in a bar, would you be embarrassed to admit it? 

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Meeting Men In Bars

Men’s Health Magazine has an online Men’s Health TV edition with helpful videos. He can learn the best way to produce a sexy and not over-powering scent, how to use email to woo his woman, or why he should skip the texting and use his phone for a call if he’s looking to bump up the intimacy in his relationship.

In addition to relationship tips, Men’s Health also covers fitness, nutrition, and how-tos.  Each video is a quick minute long – just right for a quick brush-up before an important date.

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Quick Relationship and Sex Help For Men

What sexy body part did the ancient Aztecs name the avocado after?  Were graham crackers created to enhance or dull the sex drive?  Test your sex IQ with a quiz put together by K. Aleisha Fetters. Look for SEX MYTHS BUSTED at Women’s Health Magazine.com.  

Would you like to have an impact on a future Men’s Health article? Then, take a very short poll on dating at located at Women’s Health Magazine.com.

Finally, looking for better communication with your guy, then TALK LIKE A MAN, located at, yes, you guessed it, Women’s Health Magazine.com. An example, if you want to tell your story man-speak style – get to the point quickly or risk losing his attention. 

“If you think the ’story’ of your afternoon with your sister has four parts, it probably has two that male ears can hear. Maybe even one. If you love him, edit.” 

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Relationship Quickies