There sure were a lot of male crybabies on last night’s season finale of America’s Next Great Restaurant on NBC. Of the three final contestants, two of them (Joey and Jamawn) were reduced to sobs and tears at several edited points during the show. (These moments were related to the surprise arrival of the contestants’ wives, kids, siblings, and/or friends at the end of their long and arduous restaurant competition, so I don’t blame Joey or Jamawn for turning on the waterworks. On the other hand, Sudhir, a new American citizen, native of India, and creator of Spice Coast, consistently held his emotions in check, which was one of the reasons why I would’ve chosen his concept as the winner.) But I have to say that watching those two tough guys weep openly on several occasions did make me realize how infrequently I’ve seen the men in my life cry. And because Joey and Jamawn are both fathers, I couldn’t help but specifically think of my own Dad.
My Dad was a self-made businessman who came from absolutely nothing, grew up indigent in one of Washington, D.C.’s worst neighborhoods, worked hard, built a successful company from the ground up, and, financially speaking, did very, very well for himself — without the benefit of a reality TV show, celebrity investors, or multiple chances to succeed. More »