It’s quite similar to the popular saying, “try and try until you succeed”, don’t you agree?
Women, being prone to thoughts lingering on the faerie tales we’ve read growing up, are stuck with the idea that we’ll go through life finding love in just one prince charming. We’re led to believe that there will only be one man who will capture our hearts and sweep us off our feet. But does it really happen often in real life? Do we end up with our first crush or first boyfriend? Can we honestly say we didn’t find any other man attractive?
I’m not …read more

Hee hee. Just wanted to make you guys laugh a bit.
But dog or not, it’s a great thing to think about, yeah? What kind of man do you want? Were the traits the woman in the comic enumerated even such a tall order in the first place?
It’d be good to know your thoughts!
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“In real life, I have observed that a lot of my friends who are nicer and more conservative than I am, have these great men beside them. And I…got some real bad lemons. After noticing this…and reading Bo Sanchez’s book, I am slowly coming to the conclusion that: to get a good guy, I have to be a good girl.” – Sorsi, That Girl Was Me!
Hmmm…
Again.
Hmmm…
I can’t say I agree but who am I to challenge a real-life observation, huh? I can only offer my own personal opinion regarding the matter and let Sorsi take care of the rest. But …read more

Dating Coach, Diana Kirschner, a New York psychologist and author of “Opening Love’s Door: The Seven Lessons,” believes no one is going to find Mr. Right by romancing one man at a time.  In fact, she takes a “the more the merrier” approach to dating.  She’s even developed a ‘Boot Camp’ for love out of this program.
I’ve never been one to think that dating more then one at a time would be anything more then confusing.
Perhaps I’m wrong, and please feel free to speak your mind if you disagree…
How can one possibly give any one person serious consideration when there’s …read more

Now, here’s something to talk about. I’m sure most single women believe that he’s out there, somewhere. And I reckon male readers are curious to know what I’d say about the matter. (Anyone care to own up to his curiosity? Hehe. )
Anyway.
Let me present you with two simple thoughts (or theories, if you prefer) on how one can tell if he’s Mr. Right material:

One. The guy is capable to own up to his emotional immaturity — that he acts on making himself mature, emotionally.
Two. You have to see that he has taken active steps in taking the …read more

I’ve been noticing that apart from the usual online dating sites, people have resorted to social networking sites to find dates.
It’s actually not a bad idea if you think of it. What do you really need in a site to find someone you can date anyway? Isn’t it all about finding a person whom you can connect with?
I’ve got to admit that I have gone on dates with people I met through sites like these — social networking sites, I mean. I can’t say it’s 100% better than online dating sites, it’s just another alternative to finding Mr. Right.
What I …read more

Personally, I think there’s nothing wrong in dating the average joe.
I’ve been thinking about social classes the past few weeks and how it affects an individual’s choice for a mate. Some might not be willing to admit it but it’s almost as good as fact — it does have some weight to one’s decision.
Who is the average joe?
Is he someone who’s not spectacular? Is he someone who isn’t handsome or built like a god? Does he fall under the geek, nerd or dork category? Is he someone who isn’t earning enough? Or is he simply someone who isn’t part of …read more

And I’m referring to face-to-face meet ups and not online.
I did mention before that I’m pretty old fashioned when it comes to finding a potential mate, reason being I’m a romantic. I do like chance encounters so whenever I step out of the door, I’d often find myself wondering if I’m going to meet someone that day.
This thought came to mind since I’ll be heading to my home country, Philippines, tomorrow. Well, technically I’m stopping by Singapore first and spend quite a bit of time there before I head to Manila. And from my experience in travelling, I know there …read more