I’ve always heard a lot about closure. A person will say they “need closure” or someone will advise another person to “get closure.” I thought it was a load of BS. Nothing anyone said or could say was going to make it easier for me to move on. The circumstances that lead up to a breakup hurt and time was the only thing that would lessen that pain, not closure.
Closure represented a sort of door. Open door=pain. Closed door=healing.  No closed door ever truly changed the way I felt. It could not be that easy.
I was in a relationship that …read more

Day one of my Mission. 
I’m going to get a little New Age-y here. Maybe you are cool with that, maybe not, but try to keep an open mind.  We are going to clear away the bad to make room for the good.
This is something that I have done myself. I’ve suggested it to friends who are readers and my mom, Sandy.  What we are going to do is to get rid of all the negativity that is holding us back.  (Okay, stop that snickering, give me a chance here…….)
Then, we are going to do what Lara suggested in her …read more