Deborah responded to my Memory Fabric for Quilts and Clothing post with an interesting comment:
I have every patten I ever sewed (40+ years). I WISH I had every pattern that my mother had ever used to sew for me. But what I really regret is that I did not save a fabric swatch to go along with the pattern. That would have been a great memory. But I can describe the fabrics
I thought, What a wonderful idea…saving fabric swatches to attach to a pattern.  Or if you don’t have the swatches, create a Memory Fabric Journal.
Describe your fabrics and …read more

There will always be a standard. There will always be the sizing up part. There will always be decisions to make.
You may have developed a pattern over the years, intentionally or not. For whatever reason, it’s brings you comfort above all. It’s the most convenient thing to do. I’m not passing judgment. I’m only observing.
Some of your actions will be based on a pattern. Some are influenced by principles. We can only hope that the combination is healthy enough to provide you with relationship or dating prospects.
For men, as the pursuer, I hope you are mostly ruled by principles. This …read more