At what point does the non-disordered eater whose life is affected by a disordered eater finally have to say “Enough is Enough”?
I have been fortunate enough that no ever gave me the ultimatum “It’s the eating disorder or me… your choice.”  However, I know this happens within many friendships, relationships, marriages and even families.
When does the person who cannot understand the desire behind withholding nourishment, ingesting massive quantities of food (only to purge it or starve it out later) or taking laxatives night and day simply shut down?  When does he or she say farewell?
Have you ever lost a friend, …read more