Experiment.

Often times, guys rely on formulas. It’s like since they know that it worked on a certain girl before, they’d use the same approach again. They even resort to mimicking actors’ lines in the hope that the guy would buy it. I mean, perhaps dishing out a line or two to improve your game will help increase the possibility of scoring but I’m telling you, if it’s a worn out tactic you’re using, it’s going to bomb out.

Take out the cheese.

There’s a line between being sweet and complimentary AND being saccharine sweet that would make the woman blush, bordering on a cross between embarrassment and humiliation. Heh.

Eye contact.

I’m a firm believer of the eyes being the window to one’s soul. You can tell a lot of things when you look into a person’s eye.

Bottomline, for us women, we need to learn how to trust our gut sometimes. You can sometimes tell from that first few seconds if you and that guy would click. However, I do know that attraction will make it difficult to read the situation properly. But I sure hope that we’d be wise enough to sift through the good chaff from the bad ones.

Any idea on how to answer this question? How can YOU tell if a guy is just feeding you lines? Let us know.

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How can You Tell if a Guy is Just Feeding You Lines?

How you ask? Well, by modifying our pick-up lines to match the holiday theme.

The best place to perfect your holiday pick-up lines is at a holiday party, so don’t refuse any invitations this year because you’re single. Bring a friend or go solo, but get out there and work the circuit. As with all pick up lines, remember to be respectful, but be playful and open too. You never know what the season of giving will bring this year! So try these lines on for size.

• Are you done with all of your shopping madness yet? (A charming and concerned ice-breaker)

• So where are you spending the holidays this year? (In other words, are you going to be around so I can ravish you?)

• What’s the history behind mistletoe anyway? (An innocent flirtation that is only slightly provocative)

• Have you ever cooked a holiday dinner? I’m thinking of having Christmas/Hanukkah/Thanksgiving at my house this year, and I’m a little nervous about it. (Especially charming when it comes from a sensitive male)

• Do you remember when you figured out that there was no Santa Claus?

• What’s your favorite holiday memory?

• I’m having a little holiday cocktail party at my house this year; what would be easy to serve? (Hint: after you’ve engaged him or her in a conversation, invite him or her to your cocktail party and then start planning one!)

• So what was your day like? (Always a kind, sincere approach, and perhaps a good segue into some holiday shopping nightmare stories)

• Do you believe in New Year’s resolutions? Do you have any this year?

• You guys seem like you’re having a really good time. Are you all friends? (Always a good one when you see a group of friends having a good time — especially when you want to get to know one or two of them in particular).

The list could go on and on if you’re determined and creative enough. Just remember to include references to the holidays, be sincere and polite and embody that holiday spirit. It could be the beginning of a great new year.

Now, those are some fairly sincere pick-up lines, but how about we have a little fun and see what kind of fun or even tacky pick-up lines we can come up with.  Cheezy is great, but let’s do our best to keep them clean

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10 holiday party pick-up lines