One of the things that I do not like about being in a long distance relationship is spending the holidays without my partner. Sometimes I feel like I will never have the kind of relationship that other people take for granted. Then, I get disgusted with myself for being so poor-me.
I had a good 4th of July holiday. I enjoyed my family and my friends stopped by for a visit in the evening, but I could not help wishing for a different sort of day next year. I’d like someone to plan with and shop with and cook with. I’d like …read more

Today was day one of a new outlook. I’ve been feeling sort of stuck and unorganized. I’ve been winging it. Winging it works for awhile, but it’s no way to run a life long-term. I have big plans for the future and they all require me to find some balance and harmony.
I want to move my boyfriend into my life permanently. That means I need to clear some space for him. Some of this is physical space – he’s got stuff, too, after all – but some of it is mental space. I won’t be the sole decision maker. …read more

Road trip home for the holidays?
Traveling with a loved one, especially for new couples, can be tricky. Here are a few tips to help make sure your holiday travel plans don’t lead to a stocking full of coal.
*Decide on a route ahead of time. Try to make this as democratic as possible. If you get your way on the route, be open to conceding on some other point later on.
*When planning the route, take into account rest stops. Spending hours in the car can lead to boredom and tension. It might be a good idea to stop somewhere midway for …read more