How did you know that you were/were not done adding to your family members? Did you have a set number to begin with? Was there some sort of strategic planning involved, or did you play it all by ear?
It seems as though the opinions on a perfect number vary greatly depending on religion, upbringing and pure personal preference. I have heard people bad mouth my husband and I for having so many kids. By the same token, I’ve been chastised for choosing to stop procreating. If we lived in China, we’d be almost quadruple our allowed number of children. It …read more