I’m sure there are couples out there who go through long distance relationships and succeed, however, I’m also certain that they need assurance every so often that they can see their partner at a given time. They, too, will find that the distance can put a strain on the relationship. Perhaps it’s in the intensity that will differ per couple.

Even when I spoke of technology bridging the gap, I also pointed out how it cannot replace your partner’s physical presence. Assured with the knowledge that with one call you can easily see and be with him or her. During the trip, I found it frustrating that I can only connect using my mobile phone or an occasional chat session (if I’m lucky).

Though, I have to admit that the trip helped me see how I have taken it for granted — my ability to be with him anytime and with ease. It made realise how I’m fortunate to not be in a long distance relationship (that’s not saying the ones who aren’t are unfortunate, ok?). I simply think that my needs are best met with a partner who can be physically around me during the relationship in order of things to work out.

IMHO, proximity (close, at that!) simply plays a big role in nurturing a relationship. What about you guys? What do you think?

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Proximity Does Matter

It’ll just be four days. I’ll be going off on a *political* road trip (part of media on a campaign caravan of a senatorial candidate), which means I’ll be on the road without my partner beside me and I’ll be doing my own thing. It’s a bit unsettling since, for the past few months, I’ve grown used to the fact that I can see him in a heartbeat if he or I want to. The last time we were apart was when he spent Christmas in the province with his family.

I have to admit that I am excited about this opportunity to further my career as a writer-slash-blogger in new media but, of course, it’s a bit hard doing stuff knowing that I’m leaving someone behind. The dilemma of attachments me thinks.

I reckon this sort of thing comes in every relationship and standing the test of distance may help make us stronger (that certainly sounded cliché-ish ) but regardless, this is something I need to learn. Not to detach but simply to be a little less dependent on the security of proximity.

Anyway, I’m sure this is an opportunity to learn something new — both on relationships and building careers.

What do you guys think? Any thoughts?

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Dating & Relationships: Trial by Distance