Topic: sex and communication

“People ask me if spanking is painful,” says Babeland sex educator Cristen Kennedy, who recently started teaching a class on spanking at one of Babeland’s New York City locations. “Everyone processes pain differently. The goal is not to beat the crap out of someone.”

âPeople ask me if spanking is painful,â says Babeland sex educator Cristen Kennedy, who recently started teaching a class on spanking at one of Babelandâs New York City locations. âEveryone processes pain differently. The goal is not to beat the crap out of someone.â

– Blisstree contributor Helen “Girly” Brown interviewing Babeland’s Cristen Kennedy about consensual adult spanking in the bedroom, from her post: Hit Me With Your Best Shot: Blisstree’s Guide to Sensation Play During Sex

Happy (Belated) National Sex Toy Day: 11 Naughty Blisstree Posts to Help You Celebrate Properly

Happy (Belated) National Sex Toy Day: 11 Naughty Blisstree Posts to Help You Celebrate Properly

Ladies (and gentlemen), start your vibrators. According to Lemondrop, last Thursday was National Sex Toy Day. If you’re a regular Blisstree reader, you know that we’re very much in favor of bringing sex toys into the bedroom, whether or not you’re flying solo. To get you in the mood, we put 11 of our sex-toy-focused posts in one place for your browsing pleasure. Whether you’re looking for an adult amusement that’s eco-friendly or just plain cheeky (pun intended), you’ll find a toy that’s right up your alley (ditto) in one of our 11 posts with a sexy slant:

1. Give a Hand to the Blowjob Queen: Read This to Earn Your Fellatio Ph.D.

2. Eco-Friendly After Dark: 10 Green Sex Toys Under $25

3. Hit Me With Your Best Shot: Blisstree’s Guide to Sensation Play During Sex More »

Do Try This at Home: A Sexual Pleasure Checklist (Excerpt From Babeland’s Book Moregasm)

Do Try This at Home: A Sexual Pleasure Checklist (Excerpt From Babeland's Book Moregasm)

The following is an excerpt from Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex in conjunction with our recent post: Hit Me With Your Best Shot: Blisstree’s Guide to Sensation Play During Sex

The Yes/No/Maybe List

In many of our Babeland workshops, we hand out a “Yes/No/Maybe” list. It’s a great tool for starting a chat. More like a game than homework. The rules are easy: Look at the list of sexual activities and put each one into a “Yes,” “No,” or “Maybe” column on a piece of paper. Just go with how you feel at the moment. There are no wrong answers, and you are not chiseling your choices in stone – you can change your mind later. When you’re done, compare answers with your partner and see where you overlap. More »

Hit Me With Your Best Shot: Blisstree’s Guide to Sensation Play During Sex

Hit Me With Your Best Shot: Blisstreeâs Guide to Sensation Play During Sex

By Helen “Girly” Brown

They say there’s a thin boundary between pleasure and pain, which may be why activities that blend the two can often seem so exciting.

The ancient art of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Sadism/Submission, Masochism) — also known as “Sensation Play” — includes spanking, tying up your partner, handcuffing, and using various “instruments of pleasure” to create pain and other feelings of varying degrees.

“People ask me if spanking is painful,” says Babeland sex educator Cristen Kennedy, who recently started teaching a class on BDSM at one of Babeland’s New York City locations. “Everyone processes pain differently. The goal is not to beat the crap out of someone.”
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