There’s a woman I know who is a bit too chummy with my husband. We’re both runners and cyclists, but this girl–let’s call her Ms. Clueless When It Comes To Relationship Boundaries, emails him (not me) to join her on long runs and rides. In all fairness, she invites other guys too–but not me, and not any other women. More
Topic: sexual health
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists has officially endorsed intrauterine devices (IUDs) as contraceptives for healthy women and teens.
For many years, IUDs have remained only marginally popular among women in the U.S., in part because the IUD—which is just a plastic device laced with copper or hormones—was thought to increase the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease, which can lead to infertility. The old recommendations, last updated in 2005, only endorsed IUDs for women who had already given birth and were at a low risk for sexually transmitted diseases. More
If you were about to get tested for sexually transmitted infections and diseases, would you want everyone to know? Foursquare, the popular social media app that lets users check into local businesses and attractions to gain points and unlock badges, went out on a limb and assumed that you would…and they were right. Partnering with MTV to meld social media with social awareness, Foursquare created an online “movement” to encourage young people to get tested. Every time users checked into a clinic, they unlocked badges and shared their whereabouts across social media platforms. According to them, their campaign resulted in thousands upon thousands of participants. I know the Foursquare homepage says “it’s more fun with friends!” but this might be pushing the envelope.
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When Sir Mix-A-Lot‘s hit Baby Got Back came out in 1992, the opening verse became anthemic for so many curvaceously-plump women taking pride in their badonk-badonks (even if his taste was qualified with “itty-bitty waists”). But what about the girls with big…everything? Where’s the number one hit record for that, eh? There has always been some murmuring on the down-lo about men who prefer to date big, beautiful women, or “BBW” as they’re known in cyber circles. They’ve been mostly underground for fear of reprisal, but now the Village Voice has spoken to some men who are finally “coming out of the closet,” as they put it, and into the arms of their lovely 300-pound lady friends. And as it turns out, there are more BBW admirers than you might imagine. Remember that overweight girl from high school who everyone assumed would be celibate for the rest of her livelong years? She’s probably having hotter sex than her former classmates, because newsflash: You don’t have to be thin to have hot sex. More
Magazines like to teach us weird sex positions, most of which we’ll never try. But when Cosmopolitan recently found its way to my table in a cafe, I was still surprised by what was inside. The cover alone made me laugh: Currently, it features a young starlet I don’t recognize (nothing like a magazine to make you feel old), and headlines that sound like a joke: Look Sexy! Makeup That Flirts For You and This Sex Position Increases Female Orgasm by 56%. (I realize their headlines need to be catchy, not scientific, but what does that even mean?) The header that really caught my eye was 75 Sex Moves Men Crave; frankly, I was skeptical they could deliver the goods. (75? Come on.) The article raised my eyebrows, but not because of groundbreaking news about sex. Instead of explicit diagrams of sex moves I’ll never do, it was full of quotes from men (aged about 18-35) about what they wish their exes had done better in bed. It wasn’t just useless; it was actually damaging for sexual health. Instead of giving me 75 great tips, Cosmo set set me back about 75 years. More
Shop For Your Life…is not a line from RuPaul’s Drag Race; it’s the conclusion of a study that shows shopping makes people live longer. We have yet to find out how personal finance experts will interpret this one, but for now: You know what to do with your tax return. (FitSugar)
Get Flex-Time for Your Health – Studies show that jobs with flexible schedules improve family life and reduces turnover; time to work from home. (PsychCentral) More
Since the sexual revolution of the 1960s, we’ve come a long way in terms of talking openly about women’s sexual health. Or have we? Let’s face it: Masturbation in our society as a whole (at least in the U.S.) remains a taboo subject, particularly with regard to women. Of course, when it comes to a guy jerking off, it’s perfectly acceptable for that image and act to be the recurring punchline in any number of movies and TV shows. But if women do masturbate, they certainly aren’t expected or encouraged to talk about it. This unfair double-standard has always bothered me, so I asked Dr. Julie Elledge — a psychotherapist for individuals and couples who deals with many issues of sexual health — about some of the physical and mental health benefits of masturbation, and her thoughts on when the hell our society is going to wake up, learn, and accept that women masturbate, too, and that it’s perfectly normal, natural, and healthy. More
Taking relationship advice from Samantha from Sex and The City may not be a wise decision, but occasionally, Sam got things right. She once explained to her friends that “sex is a barometer for what’s going on in the relationship.” And while we might not agree on all counts, when it comes to health benefits, she did have a point.
Sex is just plain good for the body, and may even be on par with diet, exercise, and genetics when it comes to living a healthy life. More
As if having frequent headaches wasn’t bad enough, it turns out that taking painkillers may cause erectile dysfunction. In a study published in this week’s Journal of Urology, researchers observed over 80,000 men aged 45 to 69, beginning in 2002. They found that men who regularly used non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (like ibuprofen or aspirin) were 2.4 times more likely to develop erectile dysfunction. More
Want to know how to have great sex, take great photos, and have a stress-free vacation? We’re tapping the best experts for their tricks and advice for making your life better, six ingredients at a time. This week, we talked to Dr. Carol Queen, PhD, about how to make the most of our time in bed (right now). Check out her ideas and tricks for having great sex: More
According to Jay-Z, there’s nothing you can’t do in New York City. And thanks to a new app launching today (on Valentine’s Day, clever), one thing you can definitely do is find free condoms. The new app, built for iPhones and Android phones, is designed to help New Yorkers find free condoms, wherever they are: just type in an address, and find five places nearby that stock free NYC condoms, courtesy of the city’s health department. More
Cancel Your Tickets to London – Hospitals in England are canceling operations to make room for flu patients in their intensive care units, and there’s a shortage of vaccines and medicines in many clinics and hospitals. (The Telegraph)