Sex isn’t the only way people control their mates.  Money is the other big control issue I think.  I know that psychologists say that there are other issues, in-laws, discipline of children, etc. ..but I would venture a guess that these are secondary to either the sex or money (or both) issues that are going on in a marriage.
In fact, I think that lack of sex may often the result of one of the primary wage earner not being upfront about the money…

Thanks to all who participated in our December Poll, asking how much you planned on spending for your loved one’s gift.
I think we stayed about where I voted, if I remember what I voted correctly. Looks like many of you got spoiled for Christmas, as well! Hope it was a great holiday season for all.
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