Bouquet of your favourite flowers waiting on your desk when you get back from your lunch.

Taking an unexpected trip to Tijuana.

Buying expensive gifts on a whim.

Sounds so romantic, eh?

I’m sure one wouldn’t mind some form of romantic interlude every now and then — er, interlude being an operative word. Oftentimes, I prefer a bit of organisation and stability in my relationship.

Then again, that’s just me.

What do you guys think of it? Just how much spontaneity can you actually handle in dating? Should you impose a limit?

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Spontaneity in Dating: How much is too much?

I’m sure a lot of people are out there who would take advantage of this humourous event. It is after all just for fun. Teeheehee.

Why don’t we all take this opportunity and go out find or do something fun or funny just for the heck of spicing up our lovelife. Uh — as for me, the lack of it, that is. But that bit won’t stop me from having fun! Hahaha. I have plans of going out bowling with family and friends later. Who knows? I just might come home with a tale or two.

I suggest that you come up with something really hilarious but not too hurtful a prank, especially something that may just ricochet badly and may cause repercussions that you wouldn’t really want to deal with. Heh. Just think funny and clever! Let me know if you do by leaving a comment here or emailing me. I’ll be happy to share it with the rest of the readers of Dating Dames. I hope to hear from you guys soon!

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It’s April Fool’s Day

Mr. Arrogant
No woman wants to become involved with a man who is rude to her or others. She will observe how a man treats other people, especially MOM and draw conclusions on how he’s likely to treat her later on.

Mr. Cheap
If you can’t afford to go out to dinner offer to cook dinner. Don’t ever get a girl out on a date and spring it on her that she’ll have to pay – more than likely if you are upfront about being in a financial pickle, she’ll be understanding and perhaps even offer to cook you dinner.

Mr. Predictable
Think about it. If a woman were predictable all the time, you’d grow quite bored with her, so why should she be any different. If you aren’t the type that can come up with spontaneity on your own, try doing a little research or talk to other women and come up with a little spice now and again.

Mr. Judgmental
If a man is constantly judging those around him, a woman is going to wonder what’s going through his mind and how he sizes her up. If a woman has a habit that a man doesn’t like, he’s better off finding a way to address it or leave. Everyone has habits we may not like; it’s up to us to realize whether or not its one we can live with.

Mr. Bitter
Nothing can put a damper on a date like a man drudging up hate and resentment toward an ex. If an ex is being invited into the date through conversation, you’re likely giving in to a surefire deal breaker.

Mr. Pig
He doesn’t try to hide his flirtations with other women; he gawks at other women when he’s walking with his girlfriend on his arm. It’s not the best thing for a woman’s self esteem and it’s a sure way to get a quick kick to the curb. Even if you do have a wondering eye, you’ll need to learn to train that eye when in the presence of your girlfriend.

Mr. Always Right
There’s a time and a place for debating – the date is not it! By turning a conversation into an argument, you are placing your date into a defensive mode i.e. Stress! You don’t want to be associated with stress do you? Lighten up, relax and enjoy some stimulating conversation – save the debates for your buddies over a good game of Texas Hold’em.

Ladies, are there any I may have missed?

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Types of Men Women Avoid Like The Plague