Here’s a great tip for guys who wants to “get the girl”.

The trick is being a great actor. You have to make the girl believe that she’s “the one” for you. Make her feel that you were living in darkness and she’s the light that came to your life. she gives you the desire to be a “better man” if not the best.

Be the kind of guy who listens and pays her 100% attention. Let her believe you’re being honest and true for the very first time in your life. And yea, you do have to profess eternal love!

I know it can be hard especially if you’re the type that keeps a “little black book” but think about it, she’d feel she’s taming a beast. She’ll like that. It will make her feel special.

And when it comes to the break up, having a good alibi is a huge deal because after all the things you’ve said, you wouldn’t want her to hate you, right? Tell her that the reason is not because you don’t love her. It’s because you have to do it out of honor and responsibility, either regarding your career, family or a pregnant ex-girlfriend. Make it look like you’re cornered into leaving her then quietly drop out of sight!

I know someone who used this method and it worked! Just make sure you cover your tracks, eh?

Note to all: This is written in jest.

Note to women: But it does happen. I just wanted to share of the actual existence of such an “act” so please be wary of such ploys and men.

Note to men: We’re on to you! Ahahahaha! See first note.

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The Player’s Manual

Such a response is selfish. Your attitude is one of taking from your relationship. You are not willing to release the other person to do freely what he or she finds enjoyable. In effect, you are saying: “I want you to be happy, but only if you do what makes me happy. My happiness comes first, not yours.” That is a sign of infatuation, not love. Jealousy is strongly associated with divorce. More than three times as many divorced than happily married persons report mate jealousy.

Real Love: If it is love, jealousy is less frequent and less severe. Not that you will never feel jealous. None of us ever gets to be 100% selfless. But the more you love the other person, the more you are able to release her or him. Release is an expression of trust, respect, and acceptance. To the extent that your love is not selfish, you can be free of jealousy.

If she likes to talk to another boy once in a while, he will not restrain her freedom. He wants her to be happy, even though he might prefer that she talk only with him all the time. She will not mind if he on occasion likes to dance with some other girl. Love does not restrict, it release. It does not imprison, it liberates.

That’s why it’s so important that love be mutual. If you love, you trust. That means you need someone worthy of that trust. That way you can free each other to be your true selves, in full confidence that your trust will not be betrayed.

As your love grows, so does your trust and confidence. More and more you learn to avoid the things that displease each other. As a result, jealousy comes to be less frequent and less severe. At length it may all but disappear.

If you set out to save your life, that’s a selfish intent. The result is that you lose out on life. You miss the joy of giving, of being useful, of feeling needed.

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CLUE 14. Are You Jealous?