Men can be hard to figure out. They say that about us women, but men can use this combination of sarcasm and bravado – with women and with other men – that confuses me sometimes.  Marie Claire’s Rich Santos, a male dating blogger, shares a peak into the male mind…..

*Go forth with confidence. It’s the fake-it-till-you-make-it school of thought.
Santos says, “Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything. You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you’re confident, it will turn out okay. This may explain why we are so clueless at what we are doing …read more

One of the books in my extensive library that I really love is For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn.
You don’t think my library is extensive? HAH! I have floor to ceiling bookcases in the dining room, two large book cases in the reception parlor AND floor to almost ceiling bookcases that line the upstairs hallway. And the ceilings are something like 10 or 11 feet..or so…whatever.