Men can be hard to figure out. They say that about us women, but men can use this combination of sarcasm and bravado – with women and with other men – that confuses me sometimes.  Marie Claire’s Rich Santos, a male dating blogger, shares a peak into the male mind…..

*Go forth with confidence. It’s the fake-it-till-you-make-it school of thought.
Santos says, “Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything. You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you’re confident, it will turn out okay. This may explain why we are so clueless at what we are doing …read more

Another step toward fulfillment of The Mission and it fits in very well with Lara’s post today about resetting your style.  It’s funny, how well the posts fit, too, because I didn’t read Lara’s until after I wrote mine.  We seem both ready to make some changes in ourselves and our lives. Is anyone else out there feeling that way?  Do you think it has to do with the season or some end of the year getting it all in order-type thing? If you are making some changes, please share them with us in the comments section. Thanks!
Anyway……..this weekend, I found …read more

I’m in the process of conducting a bit of a ‘non-scientific study’ for someone who recently proposed the question on whether or not men genuinely want to end up marrying an old fashioned kind of girl.
We’ve all heard it from our mother’s and grandmothers – but then again, we all know that ‘times change‘ – right?
I took my little investigation over to a forum where a diverse crowd of singles tend to hangout.  After presenting the same question there, I was able to draw my own conclusion from the small percentage of men and women who actually responded.
What I’m seeing …read more