How to Defuse a Money Argument
November 10, 2009 by Jennifer Chait
Filed under financial matters
Being able to successfully defuse a money argument is an awesome skill for couples to learn. Money is a number one reason why couples break up so the next time you feel the need to get crazy during a money discussion try some other tactics instead that will defuse not enrage the discussion.
Be proactive: If money is ONLY something you discuss when you’ve got a problem, well, that right there is your problem. Couples who are open about their money style and discuss bills and finances when there’s no problem are better equipped to deal when a problem arises. The …read more
Financially Compatible Spouses & Partners
March 23, 2009 by Jennifer Chait
Filed under debt/credit, finances, financial matters
If you’re getting married or considering a life with a significant other, then you should discuss money matters before hooking up for the long term. Some money issues just need a little discussion, while others are MAJOR warning signs that late on there could be problems.
Things to discuss:
Your spending priorities: Are both of you interested in saving for a house, kids, a car, or is only one of you into that? Do you have different spending styles? I.e does one of you live to shop while the other is a minimalist.
Do you agree on how much money should go …read more
