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]]> http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/are-you-your-best-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-957 anna Wed, 13 Feb 2008 09:50:10 +0000 http://www.widowsquest.com/are-you-your-best-friend/#comment-957 Elaine - I love remembering the good times but we do need to balance our emotions. If we turn them into a superhero with no faults then we stop ourselves from moving on and indeed I know in my case, not honour his memory. He didn't see himself like that, and wouldn't want to be remembered as anything but a human - good and bad! Elaine – I love remembering the good times but we do need to balance our emotions. If we turn them into a superhero with no faults then we stop ourselves from moving on and indeed I know in my case, not honour his memory. He didn’t see himself like that, and wouldn’t want to be remembered as anything but a human – good and bad!

]]> http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/are-you-your-best-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-898 Elaine Williams Wed, 13 Feb 2008 01:10:47 +0000 http://www.widowsquest.com/are-you-your-best-friend/#comment-898 Excellent article, and so true. Sometimes we miss the loved one so much we make out the past to be much much better than it may have been, thus, looking at it through rose colored glasses. We need to be honest with ourselves in order to help ourselves move through our grief. Excellent article, and so true. Sometimes we miss the loved one so much we make out the past to be much much better than it may have been, thus, looking at it through rose colored glasses. We need to be honest with ourselves in order to help ourselves move through our grief.

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