Life is about change
June 12, 2007 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Grief
In a comment to the post Links from Tiffany there is a comment that I wanted to share
“I think widowership is temporary event. find a next partner and crash the bad memories. and enjoy with new partner or partners. life is all ways need a change”
I agree that life is about change, I have not found it as easy to move on and yet I find this comment almost refreshing. We all need to move from pain to the future, we all move from concentrating on the past to
living in the future. We all move at a different pace. I wish that I could move quickly in some ways however then I realise that as much as that is something I will do, for now I still have pain to allow to heal. I still have a love that burns deep inside that does not want to fade for the moment. We are all different, in the end we hopefully find a new love….that is the next chapter of our life.
I certainly agree that “life is about change”. However, finding a partner to enjoy life with is a difficult task. Where does one go to find that special person? I miss the camaraderie and someone to enjoy even the simplest of life’s pleasures.