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		<title>Ideas on Living Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 14:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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The loss of a child, well I just cannot imagine the pain. I cannot imagine finding the strength to write about it but I was emailed about a book from Shirley Enebrad. Now I haven&#8217;t read the book but wanted to share some of the story and lessons from cancer





More children die from  cancer than all of the other diseases combined,



 



“The flip side of placing  a high value on human life is the fear of dying,” said Enebrad, author of  Over the Rainbow Bridge “My son, Cory, never looked at that side of  the coin. [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1777" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2009/10/0acdbce780464e8a347554ef32fa40b5.jpg" alt="overthe rainbow" width="118" height="96" />The loss of a child, well I just cannot imagine the pain. I cannot imagine finding the strength to write about it but I was emailed about a book from Shirley Enebrad. Now I haven&#8217;t read the book but wanted to share some of the story and lessons from cancer</p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="font-family: Arial">More children die from  cancer than all of the other diseases combined,</span><span style="font-family: Arial"><span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="font-family: Arial">“The flip side of placing  a high value on human life is the fear of dying,” said Enebrad, author of  <a href="http://www.overtherainbowbridge.info"><strong>Over the Rainbow Bridge</strong></a> “My son, Cory, never looked at that side of  the coin. <strong>He only saw life</strong>, and he envisioned his life as nothing more – and  nothing less – than an opportunity to inspire others.”</span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial">“</span></strong><span style="font-family: Arial">He asked  me to write this book to help teach people that death is not the end and that we  should not be afraid,” she said. “He loved the message in the song ‘The  Rose,’ especially the lyric ‘those afraid of dying cannot learn to live.’<br />
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="font-family: Arial">Cory also wanted to share his ideas on living life,  no matter the circumstances:</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial">Live like there’s no    tomorrow, love with all your heart and laugh until your spirit lights    up!</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial">There is an afterlife    where our soul/essence/spirit lives on.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial">No matter what happens    &#8212; choose happiness.</span></li>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="font-family: Arial"> “<span>Cory’s life was about teaching people  how to live, to make every moment count and that life is a gift.”</span></span></p>
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<p><strong>You know why is it that those who are dying are often the ones with the strength? Why are those who die so rational? Why is it that the living think more about death and the dying think about living&#8230;.</strong></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="font-family: Arial"> (30% of net proceeds from his biography will be donated to Candlelighters  Childhood Cancer Foundation of Western Washington (WWA) and CureSearch National  Childhood Cancer Foundation)</span></p>
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<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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		<title>Thoughts from the Grave of a Soldier</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2008 11:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Grief]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh wow, there are times when my heart just aches at the pain of death. Rather than comment too much I will let you read a blog post from a soldier who died &#8211; he left a blog post to be published in case of his death.
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&#8220;What I don&#8217;t want this to be is a chance for me, or anyone else, to be maudlin. I&#8217;m dead. That sucks, at least for me and my family and friends. But all the tears in the world aren&#8217;t going to bring [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh wow, there are times when my heart just aches at the pain of death. Rather than comment too much I will let you read <a href="http://obsidianwings.blogs.com/obsidian_wings/2008/01/andy-olmsted.html">a blog post from a soldier who died</a> &#8211; he left a blog post to be published in case of his death.</p>
<p>Here is a snippet but suggest you read his thoughts in full -</p>
<p>&#8220;What I don&#8217;t want this to be is a chance for me, or anyone else, to be maudlin. I&#8217;m dead. That sucks, at least for me and my family and friends. But all the tears in the world aren&#8217;t going to bring me back, so I would prefer that people remember the good things about me rather than mourning my loss. &#8221;</p>
<p>The last phrase touched my heart like no other</p>
<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know if there is an afterlife; I tend to doubt it, to be perfectly honest. But if there is any way possible, Amanda, then I will live up to Delenn&#8217;s words, somehow, some way. I love you.&#8221;</p>
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