Widows Quest » being scared http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest Redefine Yourself and Rediscover Life after a Loss Thu, 24 Dec 2009 16:54:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 Do you feel scared? http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/do-you-feel-scared/ http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/do-you-feel-scared/#comments Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:13:48 +0000 Anna Farmery http://www.widowsquest.com/do-you-feel-scared/ Post from: Widows Quest

]]> Grief affects in so many ways, it shakes your self confidence to the core. I find that I get scared about the future, of loneliness, of never feeling happy again. I find that social situations scare me, I don’t want to be around people that I don’t know.

I wonder why someone who used to be so strong and indeed so sociable can feel this way? Me, as a person has not changed or have I? My personality is bound to be different by losing someone I love. He helped give me strength, helped give me confidence. But you know, it was there before I fell in love. When we beautiflmodelvswall.jpg feel scared we need to look at who we were before falling in love…that person is still deep inside and we  just have to find that person again. When you are in a couple, you merge, you play to each others  strengths…now we need to find that whole person again.

Being scared is natural, emotions are natural. Maybe being scared is a sign that the numbness is subsiding and that our capacity of feeling is returning….

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