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		<description><![CDATA[Each week I post articles to help widows and widowers cope with grief and think more positively about the future. Here is this weeks Carnival of Positive Thinking

Suzanne presents Happiness in 7 steps: Step 1 &#8211; I am OK as I am posted at Without Dash.

SmallTownSim presents Even when&#8230; posted at Joy&#8217;s Journey To Wellness, saying, &#8220;In the entry titled, &#8220;Even when&#8230;&#8221; The author shares the struggles she faces daily but allows us to witness her determination in dealing with each challenge.&#8221;

GP presents You Gotta Get Out of Your Kitchen « Musings from Montana posted at Manely Montana, saying, &#8220;Sometimes, [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Each week I post articles to help widows and widowers cope with grief and think more positively about the future. Here is this weeks Carnival of Positive Thinking<br />
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<p><strong>Suzanne</strong> presents <a href="http://www.withoutdash.com/happiness-in-7-steps-physical-intelligence/">Happiness in 7 steps: Step 1 &#8211; I am OK as I am</a> posted at <a href="http://www.withoutdash.com">Without Dash</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>SmallTownSim</strong> presents <a href="http://joysjourney2wellness.blogspot.com/2009/07/even-when.html">Even when&#8230;</a> posted at <a href="http://joysjourney2wellness.blogspot.com/">Joy&#8217;s Journey To Wellness</a>, saying, &#8220;In the entry titled, &#8220;Even when&#8230;&#8221; The author shares the struggles she faces daily but allows us to witness her determination in dealing with each challenge.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://manker.wordpress.com/2009/07/12/you-gotta-get-out-of-your-kitchen/">You Gotta Get Out of Your Kitchen « Musings from Montana</a> posted at <a href="http://manker.wordpress.com">Manely Montana</a>, saying, &#8220;Sometimes, you just have to get out of your own way.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Russ Wood</strong> presents <a href="http://www.woods-world.com/blog/2009/07/how-to-deal-with-negative-thinking/">6 Tips on How to Deal with Negative Thinking</a> posted at <a href="http://www.woods-world.com/blog">Russ Wood</a>, saying, &#8220;This article is more about personal development and dealing with negative thinking.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Erin Pavlina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2009/07/5-good-ways-to-ground-yourself/">5 Good Ways to Ground Yourself</a> posted at <a href="http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog">Erin Pavlina&#8217;s Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;Have you ever heard someone talk about being grounded?  Are you grounded?  Or is your energy drifting off like a helium balloon in the sky?  What does it even mean to be grounded and why is it important?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Stephen Martile</strong> presents <a href="http://www.freedomeducation.ca/2009/07/08/9-questions-to-unlock-your-unique-abilities/">9 Questions to Unlock Your Unique Abilities</a> posted at <a href="http://www.freedomeducation.ca">FreedomEducation.ca by Stephen Martile</a>, saying, &#8220;There are too many people in the world today doing crap they don’t enjoy.  I used to be one of those people.  By quietly contemplating a variety of questions in my life I began to see different sides of myself &#8211; and with this lens of reality I began to explore new opportunities.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Anne Simone</strong> presents <a href="http://www.onlinecollege.org/2009/07/14/100-powerful-blogs-for-your-self-improvement/">100 Powerful Blogs for Your Self-Improvement</a> posted at <a href="http://www.onlinecollege.org">Online College.org</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Alvina Lopez</strong> presents <a href="http://www.bible-college.net/index.php/100-inspirational-blog-posts-for-personal-change/">100 Inspirational Blog Posts for Personal Change</a> posted at <a href="http://www.bible-college.net">Online Bible College Degrees &#8211; Online Bible Colleges</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Outshined</strong> presents <a href="http://personalwebguide.com/food-stress-anxiety">Food, Stress, and Anxiety</a> posted at <a href="http://personalwebguide.com/">Personal Web Guide</a>, saying, &#8220;This article discusses the direct correlation that your diet can have on your stress and anxiety levels.  It&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve done a lot of personal experimentation with, having suffered from high amounts of anxiety for a good portion of my life.  Throughout the article I discuss just how powerful your dietary choices can be in not only your physical state, but also in your mental and emotional states.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Justin Hall</strong> presents <a href="http://blog.manyheavythoughts.com/2009/07/16/autosaved-32602-pm.aspx"><br />
</a> &gt;What Defines a Man? posted at <a href="http://blog.manyheavythoughts.com/">Justin Hall</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>ChristianPF</strong> presents <a href="http://www.christianpf.com/overcome-fear-of-failure/">Overcoming the fear of failure</a> posted at <a href="http://www.christianpf.com">Money in the Bible | Christian Personal Finance Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;These are some of the steps I took to overcome my fear of failure&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Donald Latumahina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2009/07/18/be-more-productive/">A Simple Tip to Be More Productive</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org">Life Optimizer</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Dragos Roua</strong> presents <a href="http://www.dragosroua.com/positive-motivation-versus-negative-motivation/">Positive Motivation Versus Negative Motivation</a> posted at <a href="http://www.dragosroua.com/">Dragos Roua &#8211; The Choice Of A Personal Path</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I posted about the anniversary of my Dad&#8217;s death and as normal you have all been wonderful with your words of comfort. When I was writing a reply to Mary, I said
&#8220;Oh Mary,&#8230;&#8230;..but in achieving all that, I sacrificed time with the man who will always be my inspiration. &#8230;..Oh Mary why do we have to have hindsight afterwards!!!!&#8221;
 Afterwards I was thinking about life in general and knowing that life would have been so much better if
 I had foresight to see what was going to happen!
I had the ability to see my hindsight at the time of the initial [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday I posted about the <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/i-miss-you-dad/">anniversary of my Dad&#8217;s death </a>and as normal you have all been wonderful with your words of comfort. When I was <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/i-miss-you-dad/#comments">writing a reply to Mary</a>, I said</p>
<p align="center"><strong>&#8220;Oh Mary,&#8230;&#8230;..but in achieving all that, I sacrificed time with the man who will always be my inspiration. &#8230;..Oh Mary why do we have to have hindsight afterwards!!!!&#8221;</strong></p>
<p> Afterwards I was thinking about life in general and knowing that life would have been so much better if</p>
<p><strong> I had foresight to see what was going to happen!</strong></p>
<p><strong>I had the ability to see my hindsight at the time of the initial events! </strong></p>
<p>With foresight I would have spent more time with Dad, with hindsight at the time (!) I would have appreciated his influence on my life and told him before it was too late.</p>
<p>If we can learn one thing it is that we can have foresight and hindsight now&#8230;..by treasuring those close to us and knowing that nothing is more important that valuing those around us and making time for those we love. The more we allow love in, the more we value love in our lives then I believe the more we will feel part of a loving world and be able to <strong>cope with our grief. </strong></p>
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		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As always on a Sunday, we pull together articles that will help us cope with our grief, our depression and help us gain a sense of purpose once again. Here is this weeks Carnival of Positive Thinking

BoH presents To fear or not to fear. posted at buddha of hollywood.

Chris Edgar presents To Feel Inspired, Focus On What You&#8217;re Contributing posted at Purpose Power Coaching, saying, &#8220;Many of us worry that, if we pursue our goals, we’ll be somehow taking from others and giving nothing in return.  In essence, we’re afraid that following our dreams might be inconsiderate or selfish. [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As always on a Sunday, we pull together articles that will help us cope with our grief, our depression and help us gain a sense of purpose once again. Here is this weeks Carnival of Positive Thinking<br />
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<p><strong>BoH</strong> presents <a href="http://buddhaofhollywood.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-fear-or-not-to-fear.html">To fear or not to fear.</a> posted at <a href="http://buddhaofhollywood.blogspot.com/">buddha of hollywood</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=88">To Feel Inspired, Focus On What You&#8217;re Contributing</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;Many of us worry that, if we pursue our goals, we’ll be somehow taking from others and giving nothing in return.  In essence, we’re afraid that following our dreams might be inconsiderate or selfish.  However, if you focus your attention on the ways what you plan to do would serve and create happiness in the world, you&#8217;ll likely begin to feel inspired again.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>AndrewB</strong> presents <a href="http://personalhack.com/2008/08/from-lame-to-fame-5-steps/">From Lame To Fame &#8211; 5 Steps</a> posted at <a href="http://personalhack.com">Personal Hack</a>, saying, &#8220;How to really become successful in every area of your life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Frederic Premji</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog/2008/10/the-power-of-asking/">The Power Of Asking</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog">BlogMotivation.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Applying the Law of Attraction</strong> presents <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog/can-the-law-of-attraction-bring-the-family-closer-together/">Can the Law of Attraction Bring the Family Closer Together?</a> posted at <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog">Applying the Law of Attraction Membership Library</a>, saying, &#8220;With the law of attraction, you will come to see that you can do anything. You can focus on the family aspect, you can focus on yourself, you can focus on your career, but you can also work on anything else that you desire to.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Carole Gold</strong> presents <a href="http://blog.carolemckay.com/2008/10/14/trade-unions.aspx">Trade Unions</a> posted at <a href="http://blog.carolemckay.com">McKay Today</a>, saying, &#8220;Healing how we come to relationships and why.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Daphne</strong> presents <a href="http://www.joyfuldays.com/2008/10/do-it-yourself-joy/">Do It Yourself Joy</a> posted at <a href="http://www.joyfuldays.com">Joyful Days</a>, saying, &#8220;I used to think that other people could make me happy. This put unfair pressure on them and sent waves of disappointment over me. Of course at some point we all realise that we are responsible for our own happiness.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong> Bill Urell</strong> presents <a href="http://addictionrecoverybasics.com/2007/09/19/how-women-become-addicted/">How Women Become Addicted | Addiction Recovery Basics</a> posted at <a href="http://addictionrecoverybasics.com">Addiction Recovery Basics</a>, saying, &#8220;Reasons for, and the effects of addiction are distinctly different for women vs. men. Specifics are revealed as this article explores these differences.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Kenny Mc Bride</strong> presents <a href="http://kennymcbride.blogspot.com/2008/10/small-change-but-big-difference.html">USE SMART GOALS &#8211; SMALL CHANGE BUT A BIG DIFFERENCE</a> posted at <a href="http://kennymcbride.blogspot.com/">Positive Thinking &#8211; A Realistic Approach</a>, saying, &#8220;When was the last time you made changes in your life that made a difference? Chances are you don&#8217;t know. That&#8217;s because most people do not actively make changes in their life, they react to life and make what changes are necessary to the situation.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Anmol Mehta</strong> presents <a href="http://anmolmehta.com/blog/2008/10/01/10-keys-for-turning-ideas-into-reality/">10 Keys for Turning Ideas Into Reality</a> posted at <a href="http://anmolmehta.com/blog">Mastery of Meditation, Enlightenment &amp; Kundalini Yoga</a>, saying, &#8220;10 valuable and key tips for helping you to turn your ideas into reality. A great read for anyone interested in achieving their highest potential in life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Abby Freedman</strong> presents <a href="http://ipickuppennies.blogspot.com/2008/10/its-little-early-for-thanksgiving-but.html">It&#8217;s a little early for Thanksgiving but&#8230;</a> posted at <a href="http://ipickuppennies.blogspot.com/">i pick up pennies</a>, saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m disabled, and during a recent dark spell I found 10 things about which I could be happy.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Donna Freedman</strong> presents <a href="http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/archive/2008/10/08/think-this-is-the-end-write-yourself-a-new-beginning.aspx">At the end? Write yourself a new beginning</a> posted at <a href="http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/default.aspx">Smart Spending</a>, saying, &#8220;What looks like the end of the world can actually be the beginning. Stability is a story that we tell ourselves so we feel good about staying right where we are in our lives. Security, whether it&#8217;s a marriage or a bunch of stocks, doesn&#8217;t always last. Sometimes it&#8217;s taken away and sometimes we decide we can live without it.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Stephen</strong> presents <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/courage-dream/">The Courage to Dream</a> posted at <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com">Balanced Existence</a>, saying, &#8220;“You can achieve anything you want in life if you have the courage to dream it, the intelligence to make a realistic plan, and the will to see that plan through to the end.”&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Wakish</strong> presents <a href="http://wakish.info/secret-to-your-success-do-you-have-a-vision-of-who-you-are-who-you-want-to-be/">Secret to your success! Do you have a vision of who you are &amp; who you want to be ? | Wakish Wonderz</a> posted at <a href="http://wakish.info">Wakish Wonderz</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=177">Are You In Permanent &#8220;Crisis Mode&#8221;?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;We can seriously limit our fulfillment if our attention is always on preparing for the worst rather than creating the life we want. One of the keys to freeing ourselves from permanent &#8220;crisis mode&#8221; is to pay close attention to our patterns of thinking and behavior, and notice the ways we’re constantly bracing ourselves for catastrophe in how we live. Here are three recommendations for developing this kind of awareness.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Sam</strong> presents <a href="http://www.surfersam.com/articles/relief-for-stress-anxiety-and-tension.shtml">NEW !! Relief for Stress, Anxiety and Tension. Symptoms and Relief. Cope and Manage Stress</a> posted at <a href="http://www.surfersam.com">Surfer Sam and Friends</a></p>
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<p><strong>Mitesh</strong> presents <a href="http://www.inventcreativity.com/2008/10/16/rejection-the-voice-in-the-back-of-your-head/">Rejection &amp; The Voice In The Back Of Your Head</a> posted at <a href="http://www.inventcreativity.com">Invent Creativity</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Ms. Cheevious</strong> presents <a href="http://mscheevious.wordpress.com/2008/10/16/surf-and-turf-baby/">Death of Paul Newman</a> posted at <a href="http://mscheevious.wordpress.com">Ms. Cheevious</a>, saying, &#8220;Fred the Wonder Chicken and I were talking about Paul Newman and how his death was such a great loss to our world&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Kacper Wrzesniewski</strong> presents <a href="http://www.kacperwrzesniewski.com3-motivation-tips-from-my-gym/">3 Motivation Tips From My Gym</a> posted at <a href="http://www.kacperwrzesniewski.com">KacperWrzesniewski.com</a>, saying, &#8220;Presented advices can help motivate you not only to regular exercising. They also work in other aspects of life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Great Management</strong> presents <a href="http://www.greatmanagement.org/blogs/161/The-Power-of-Words.html">The Power of Words</a> posted at <a href="http://www.greatmanagement.org/blogs">The GreatManagement Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;Words are powerful. They can inspire confidence or they can have the exact opposite effect &#8211; create a lack of confidence. Let me give you an example, using the current presidential campaign.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Applying the Law of Attraction</strong> presents <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog/can-you-bring-people-closer-with-the-law-of-attraction/">Can You Bring People Closer With the Law of Attraction?</a> posted at <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog">Applying the Law of Attraction Membership Library</a>, saying, &#8220;Being positive and keeping a good outlook on life is going to be<br />
critical to having great success and being the person that you<br />
would like to become.  Knowing&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Tushar Mathur</strong> presents <a href="http://travel-eat-sleep.com/seeing-cleveland/">Why You Should Travel</a> posted at <a href="http://travel-eat-sleep.com">Travel-Eat-Sleep</a>, saying, &#8220;Recently I traveled to Cleveland which sits beside Lake Erie in Ohio state. This major Midwestern city bustles with activity. There are lots of tourist attractions, festivals and events.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Roberto Montanez</strong> presents <a href="http://psychbits.com/3-keys-to-a-good-relationship/">3 Keys to a Good Relationship? Do you have them?</a> posted at <a href="http://psychbits.com">Psychbits</a>, saying, &#8220;There is nothing worse than being in a bad relationship and there is nothing better than being in a great relationship. But what makes a good relationship from a bad one? There are a plethora of factors influencing how good or bad a relationship can be. Some might say that love is all you need.  In my experience, all couples that make things work share these three common elements.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Nicholas Powiull</strong> presents <a href="http://consciousflex.blogspot.com/2008/01/3-easy-steps-to-freeing-yourself-of.html">Conscious Flex: 3 Easy Steps to Freeing Yourself of Depression: by Nicholas Powiull</a> posted at <a href="http://consciousflex.blogspot.com/">Conscious Flex</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Donald Latumahina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/10/10/winning-character-traits-lifetime-success/">7 Winning Character Traits That Create A Lifetime Of Success</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org">Life Optimizer</a>.</p>
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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2008 15:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well done, I am proud of you. Together we have made it through another week &#8211; hopefully gaining strength to cope with our grief and loss to our lives. Each Sunday I post a list of articles sent to me to help us turn that depression into positive growth &#8211; here are this weeks
Anna presents When I Ask You To Listen To Me posted at The Engaging Brand 

Ari Koinuma presents How to Climb Up the Ladder of Healing and Growth posted at Ari Koinuma, saying, &#8220;In any journey, it’s nice to have a map. Healing and growth is no [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well done, I am proud of you. Together we have made it through another week &#8211; hopefully gaining strength to cope with our grief and loss to our lives. Each Sunday I post a list of articles sent to me to help us turn that depression into positive growth &#8211; here are this weeks</p>
<p><strong>Anna</strong> presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2008/10/when-i-ask-you.html">When I Ask You To Listen To Me</a> posted at <a href="http://www.theengagingbrand.com">The Engaging Brand </a></p>
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<p><strong>Ari Koinuma</strong> presents <a href="http://ourbestversion.com/2008/09/how-to-climb-up-the-ladder-of-healing-and-growth/">How to Climb Up the Ladder of Healing and Growth</a> posted at <a href="http://ourbestversion.com">Ari Koinuma</a>, saying, &#8220;In any journey, it’s nice to have a map. Healing and growth is no exception. In this essay I employ a system of classifying your emotions, to help you see where you are in your journey and what’s next in your evolution.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=171">The Essential Breath</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;When we breathe shallowly, as many of us do, and our bodies are hungry for oxygen, it’s no wonder we suffer from a nagging sense of incompleteness, a constant feeling that we need something more to make us whole.  But when we completely allow our natural breathing process to operate, a feeling of peace and wholeness comes over us, and the sense that something is missing disappears.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>axel</strong> presents <a href="http://axelg.com/emotional-healing.html">Emotional Healing</a> posted at <a href="http://axelg.com">axel g</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Michael Miles</strong> presents <a href="http://effortlessabundance.com/blog/2008/09/the-wisdom-of-elizabeth-kubler-ross/">The wisdom of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross</a> posted at <a href="http://effortlessabundance.com/blog">Effortless Abundance</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Byteful Project</strong> presents <a href="http://byteful.com/blog/2008/09/it-takes-a-long-time-to-become-fully-you/">It Takes A Long Time to Become Fully You</a> posted at <a href="http://byteful.com/blog">Byteful Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;If you feel as if you&#8217;re in depression, I highly recommend StevePavlina.com, specifically &#8220;Dealing With Tragedy and Loss.&#8221; Also, the article I&#8217;m submitting is about how a musician&#8217;s words strike a deep chord of truth: it is indeed possible to fully become the highest expression of who you are — the best person you can be on this planet, if you only have enough desire and commit to that path, but it takes time and it&#8217;s important to be patient with yourself. A downloadable poster of the quote is included.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shaun Connell</strong> presents <a href="http://smartpersonaldevelopment.com/life-purpose/">Life Purpose 101</a> posted at <a href="http://smartpersonaldevelopment.com">Personal Development</a>, saying, &#8220;Why do you even wake up in the morning? It&#8217;s the most important question of your life. Learn how to answer the question and quench your values.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Donald Latumahina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/09/30/developing-skills/">7 Essential Tips for Developing Skills</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org">Life Optimizer</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Alvaro Fernandez</strong> presents <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com/blog/2008/09/30/wellness-coaching-for-brain-health-and-fitness/">Wellness Coaching for Brain Health and Fitness</a> posted at <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com/blog">SharpBrains: Your Window into the Brain Fitness Revolution</a>, saying, &#8220;Who will be the &#8220;personal brain trainers&#8221; of the future?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Joshua Houghton</strong> presents <a href="http://www.whatsonmybrain.com/2008/09/25/why-taking-action-makes-it-happen/">Why Taking Action, Makes it Happen</a> posted at <a href="http://www.whatsonmybrain.com">Hypnosis Information &amp; Articles Blog by Joshua Houghton &#8211; Hypnosis Information, Articles, Training, Thoughts and More</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Alex Blackwell</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thebridgemaker.com/the-price-of-fueling-our-lives-15-abundantly-free-ideas/">The Price of Fueling Our Lives: 15 Abundantly Free Ideas</a> posted at <a href="http://www.thebridgemaker.com">The BridgeMaker</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://manker.wordpress.com/2008/09/28/subtle-seasons/">Subtle Seasons</a> posted at <a href="http://manker.wordpress.com">Manely Montana</a>, saying, &#8220;Reflections on the changing seasons.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>How to Cope with Grief</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 12:53:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Grief is hard, and how we cope and grow through the experience is different for each widow or widower. But here is a little story for you
I was sat in the park when an old lady took the place by the side of me. She looked and asked what was wrong 
&#8220;How do you learn to breath again?&#8221;
She replied &#8220;One breath at a time&#8221;
&#8220;But how do your eye&#8217;s learn not to cry?&#8221;
She replied &#8220;One blink at a time&#8221; 
&#8220;How does your heart learn not to break?&#8221;
She replied &#8220;One beat at a time&#8221;
And how do you learn to laugh again?&#8221; 			
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Grief is hard, and how we cope and grow through the experience is different for each widow or widower. But here is a little story for you</p>
<p style="text-align: center">I was sat in the park when an old lady took the place by the side of me. She looked and asked what was wrong<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-1059" title="footprints.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a></p>
<p style="text-align: center">&#8220;How do you learn to breath again?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center">She replied &#8220;One breath at a time&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center">&#8220;But how do your eye&#8217;s learn not to cry?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center">She replied &#8220;One blink at a time&#8221;<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-1059" title="footprints.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a></p>
<p style="text-align: center">&#8220;How does your heart learn not to break?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center">She replied &#8220;One beat at a time&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center">And how do you learn to laugh again?&#8221;<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-1059" title="footprints.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			<img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2008/08/footprints.thumbnail.jpg" align="right" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center">She replied &#8220;One smile at a time&#8221;<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-1059" title="footprints.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a></p>
<p style="text-align: center">I turned and said &#8220;It feels like a steep mountain to climb&#8221;<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-1059" title="footprints.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a></p>
<p style="text-align: center">She turned and said &#8220;Agh yes my dear, but you can climb mountains &#8211; if you take it <span style="font-weight: bold" class="Apple-style-span">one step at a time</span>&#8220;</p>
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		<title>Angel of Death Nurse Sentenced</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 12:40:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are some news stories that send shivers down my spine, there are some stories that make my heart for the grief that people are feeling.
Yesterday, in the UK Staff nurse Colin Norris was sentenced for 4 murders and an attempted murder. The reports says
&#8220;During his campaign of murder he believed he could kill with impunity, claiming four &#8220;frail and helpless&#8221; victims within six months by injecting them with lethal doses of insulin.&#8221; 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are some news stories that send shivers down my spine, there are some stories that make my heart for the grief that people are feeling.</p>
<p>Yesterday, in the <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2008/03/04/nnurse104.xml">UK Staff nurse Colin Norri</a>s was sentenced for 4 murders and an attempted murder. The reports says</p>
<p>&#8220;<em><strong>During his campaign of murder he believed he could kill with impunity, claiming four &#8220;frail and helpless&#8221; victims within six months by injecting them with lethal doses of insulin</strong></em>.&#8221; <a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-8" title="agst" class="file-link image"><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/02/ajstjohns.thumbnail.jpg" title="agst" alt="agst" align="right" /></a></p>
<p>Wow, this story really affects me as when you are in hospital &#8211; as I was at Christmas and due to go in again soon &#8211; you are in the hands of experts and trust in the care that you receive. Now I know that this is an exception and not the rule but I cannot imagine how the families cope with the grief. Their family member was taken away from them early, and so needlessly.</p>
<p>My heart goes out to the families, no words can help but let&#8217;s hope that we can help build a better society that ensures all of us are cared for in our hour of need. <em><strong>Do you sometimes wonder what makes people want to kill, want to take someone&#8217;s life?</strong></em> I know<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-8" title="agst" class="file-link image"> 			 </a> we will never really understand but we can understand the pain it causes..</p>
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