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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 16:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have enjoyed this week as many of you have left comments, left tips and tricks and I would encourage new readers to have a look through the comments as they could really help. When you are grieving you need to find ways of beating the depression, the loneliness and each Sunday I post articles to help us succeed

Taylor Coburn presents What To Do When You Are Stuck posted at Internet Business at ProcessToProfits.
Anna presents The Value of the Human Touch posted at The Engaging Brand 

Joann Ang presents Take Charge of Your Thoughts They Have Power posted at Life Magick: [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have enjoyed this week as many of you have left comments, left tips and tricks and I would encourage new readers to have a look through the comments as they could really help. When you are grieving you need to find ways of beating the depression, the loneliness and each Sunday I post articles to help us succeed</p>
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<p><strong>Taylor Coburn</strong> presents <a href="http://www.processtoprofits.com/what-to-do-when-you-are-stuck/">What To Do When You Are Stuck</a> posted at <a href="http://www.processtoprofits.com">Internet Business at ProcessToProfits</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Anna </strong>presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2008/06/the-value-of-th.html">The Value of the Human Touch</a> posted at <a href="http://www.theengagingbrand.com">The Engaging Brand </a></p>
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<p><strong>Joann Ang</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifemagick.net/manifesting/use-your-power-take-reponsibility/">Take Charge of Your Thoughts They Have Power</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifemagick.net">Life Magick: Manifesting your Desires like Magick</a>, saying, &#8220;To live a positive happy life, think positive happy thoughts. Thoughts have power so take charge of what you are thinking.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Ralph Jean-Paul</strong> presents <a href="http://potential2success.com/thinklikeavisionary.html">How to Think Like a Visionary</a> posted at <a href="http://www.potential2success.com">Potential 2 Success</a>, saying, &#8220;Accomplish amazing goals by setting your sights in the right direction. Expand your mind and learn how the great thinkers, inventors, and leaders reached greatness by having and following their visions.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Andrew Heath</strong> presents <a href="http://www.heathcreativesolutions.com/love_and_riches.htm">Love and Riches</a> posted at <a href="http://www.heathcreativesolutions.com">Andy</a>, saying, &#8220;Based on a conversation I had with the Great Creator through automatic writing.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Ari Koinuma</strong> presents <a href="http://ourbestversion.com/2008/06/happy-ending-no-matter-what-happens/">Happy Ending No Matter What Happens</a> posted at <a href="http://ourbestversion.com">Ari Koinuma</a>, saying, &#8220;Life&#8217;s twists and turns can get any of us down, but here is how I learn ed to enjoy the ride and find peace in the unknown.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Alvaro Fernandez</strong> presents <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com/blog/2008/06/09/cognitive-and-emotional-development-through-play/">Cognitive and Emotional Development Through Play</a> posted at <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com">SharpBrains</a>, saying, &#8220;We sometimes neglect to mention a very basic yet powerful method of cognitive and emotional development, for children and adults alike: Play. Dr. David Elkind, author of The Power of Play: Learning That Comes Naturally, discusses the need to build a more &#8220;playful culture&#8221;.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Nancy Hayssen</strong> presents <a href="http://www.nancyhayssen.com/blog/315/5-ways-to-be-a-confident-sexy-woman/">5 Ways to Be a Confident Sexy Woman</a> posted at <a href="http://www.nancyhayssen.com/blog">&#8220;Sexy at ANY Size!&#8221;</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>R.Pettinger</strong> presents <a href="http://www.srichinmoybio.co.uk/blog/inner-peace/the-unexpected-power-of-gratitude/">The unexpected power of gratitude</a> posted at <a href="http://www.srichinmoybio.co.uk/blog">Sri Chinmoy Inspiration</a>, saying, &#8220;How gratitude can turn your life around&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Brian M Chin</strong> presents <a href="http://www.beechin.com/?p=22">5 Steps to Quell That Materialistic Mentality</a> posted at <a href="http://www.beechin.com">beechin blog</a>, saying, &#8220;How to stop being so materialistic and live better&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=117">Are You The Only One Who Doesn&#8217;t &#8220;Have It Together&#8221;?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;In many of us, there’s an interesting paradox in our behavior:  we strongly want to be loved and liked by others, but we won’t admit it.  I’ve come to believe the reason we’re so anxious to hide this desire is our worry that nobody else wants approval—that we’re the only people who want to be liked and loved, and have anxiety about not getting those things.  Interestingly, when we recognize this desire is only human, we not only feel more secure about having it, but also begin to transcend it and feel freer to live the lives we want.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Avani</strong> presents <a href="http://www.avani-mehta.com/2008/06/09/experiencing-life/">Experiencing Life</a> posted at <a href="http://www.avani-mehta.com">Avani-Mehta</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Andrew Heath</strong> presents <a href="http://www.heathcreativesolutions.com/its_your_fault_youre_suffering.htm">It&#8217;s Your Fault You&#8217;re Suffering</a> posted at <a href="http://www.heathcreativesolutions.com">Andy</a>, saying, &#8220;Sometimes we suffer for reasons that we can control.  What is the best way to handle suffering?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Mike King</strong> presents <a href="http://learnthis.ca/2008/06/6-ways-to-get-what-you-want/">6 Ways To Get What You Want</a> posted at <a href="http://LearnThis.ca">Learn This</a>, saying, &#8220;Achieve and take action to get what you want.  I&#8217;ve listed 6 steps or things that will help you get exactly what you want!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Fiona King</strong> presents <a href="http://www.100bestdatingsites.com/blog/2008/dating-after-divorce-50-tips-to-get-back-into-the-groove/">Dating After Divorce: 50 Tips to Get Back into the Groove</a> posted at <a href="http://www.100bestdatingsites.com/blog">Nerds Do It Better</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Yvette Nietzen</strong> presents <a href="http://www.yvettenietzen.com/?p=176">It´s All About Grace</a> posted at <a href="http://www.yvettenietzen.com">Fresh Wind Ministries, Int´l</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Lana</strong> presents <a href="http://www.svetlanaovanesyan.com/thesenseofcontrol.html">The Sense of  Control</a> posted at <a href="http://www.svetlanaovanesyan.com/">Conscious Life Conscious Relationship</a>, saying, &#8220;Dependence on others &#8211; an integral part of our upbringing. How can we be indifferent to the reactions of those who care about us, who are the source of our physical and emotional security?&#8221;</p>
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<p>That concludes this edition.  Submit your blog article to the next edition of <strong>positive thinking </strong>using our <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/submit_631.html">carnival submission form</a>.</p>
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		<title>Grief Does Not Need Death</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 21:37:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was speaking to a friend who said &#8220;You know, I have not lost someone close to me yet, however I don&#8217;t think that you need to suffer a death to feel grief&#8221;
It made me think and the more we talked the more I agreed. Grief comes in many ways&#8230;

Loss of a job
Divorce or separation from your partner
When your children leave home
Redundancy of people around you 
Grief over large events such as Burma or the death of Princess Diana
Surgery such as hysterectomy

As widows or widowers we can sometimes think that people who have not suffered a 			 death, cannot relate to [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was speaking to a friend who said &#8220;You know, I have not lost someone close to me yet, however I don&#8217;t think that you need to suffer a death to feel grief&#8221;</p>
<p>It made me think and the more we talked the more I agreed. Grief comes in many ways&#8230;</p>
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<li>Loss of a job</li>
<li>Divorce or separation from your partner</li>
<li>When your children leave home</li>
<li>Redundancy of people around you<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-930" title="istock_000002160037xsmall.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a></li>
<li>Grief over large events such as Burma or the death of Princess Diana</li>
<li>Surgery such as hysterectomy</li>
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<p>As widows or widowers we can sometimes think that people who have not suffered a<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-930" title="istock_000002160037xsmall.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			<img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2008/03/istock_000002160037xsmall.thumbnail.jpg" align="right" /></a> death, cannot relate to our feelings. That is wrong. <strong>Loss is loss</strong>&#8230;.it may be easier to replace some of the losses but they still cause feelings of grief, depression and loneliness.</p>
<p><strong>What do you think? </strong></p>
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		<title>Grief Can Be in Life as well as Death</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 20:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got an email about divorce and the feeling of grief which I wanted to share although I will keep the man&#8217;s name private for obvious reasons.
&#8220;I love your blog and yet I am male and not a widower. You may find that strange but last year my wonderful wife of 23 years walked out on me for another man. I was shell shocked as I did not see it coming. My point is that grief is felt by people like me as well as widows and widowers. In fact, I would say the grief is harder&#8230;.
When you wrote the [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got an email about <strong>divorce and the feeling of grief</strong> which I wanted to share although I will keep the man&#8217;s name private for obvious reasons.</p>
<p>&#8220;I love your blog and yet I am male and not a widower. You may find that strange but last year my wonderful wife of 23 years <strong>walked out on me for another man</strong>. I was shell shocked as I did not see it coming. My point is that<strong> grief is felt by people like me as well as widows and widowers</strong>. In fact, I would say the grief is harder&#8230;.<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-437" title="claspedhands.JPG" class="file-link image"><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2007/03/claspedhands.thumbnail.JPG" title="claspedhands.JPG" alt="claspedhands.JPG" align="right" /></a></p>
<p>When you wrote the other day that <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/loving-and-losing-is-better-than-never-loving-at-all/">your heart had fulfilled its destiny</a>&#8230;you are right. But at least when someone dies, you have not been <strong>rejected</strong>. You have been left, but the pain is tough as the person <strong>you love is still alive</strong>. <em><strong>The grief is there&#8230;the pain is there&#8230;.the relationship is dead but the person is still there to love.</strong></em> I wondered whether the readers had<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-437" title="claspedhands.JPG" class="file-link image"> 			 </a> any thoughts on how I cope?&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow, powerful. Divorce is a change, it is a relationship that is over. <em><strong>Grieving for the loss of your partner does not necessarily mean death</strong></em>. Let&#8217;s try and reach out and help this guy&#8230;<strong>any ideas? </strong></p>
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