Living Between The Fear of Grief
April 8, 2009 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Positive Changes
As widows or widowers we can be caught between two contrasting fears
The fear of leaving the past behind
The fear of living the future.
We don’t want to move on, yet we want to cope with the pain. We miss our loved ones and cannot imagine loving again in the future. We cry for what we have lost, we cry for what the future holds.
But in reality the past is gone, the future is not here…all we have is now – the present. The fears belong to the past and the future, yet are affecting the present. What we need to do …read more
