• Death does not bring an end to pain…just yours. Those around you who are already suffering, would then have more pain to deal with, more guilt to deal with…I am sure that you love your family and friends and if you do, please don’t take away your love from them.
• Death is a short term fix with no upside. By talking, by getting help you will get over the pain in the long term and the upside is finding a way to enjoy life again…and even love again.
• We have all felt like that, felt that no one could possibly imagine the pain…but at Widows Quest we are living proof that with time, you can come through…you are not alone…and weaker people than yourself have found a way through. Don’t give up now, you don’t know how close you are to finding comfort.
• Would that be what your spouse would have wanted…really? I know that would not have been the case with me, they would want me to carry on, to enjoy living again…whilst they watch over me and wait for me. But they would not have wanted me to give up the chance of helping this world be a better place.
• There are so many people who do not get a choice when their   body fails them, I feel life is too precious to cast it aside.
• You need help, you need support, you need someone to reach out and make the pain go away….there are people – friends, family, your doctor, groups, blogs like Widows Quest that can be there for you. They want to be there for you. Don’t give up on life because you are too scared to ask…..to weak to ask….to proud to ask…

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