Love is Not…..
May 29, 2008 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Finding Love
I posted about relaxing to ease the fear…..it made me think about love and what love isn’t
Love isn’t something we should fear
Love isn’t something everyone enjoys…so be grateful for the feeling
Love isn’t something that disappears on death
Love isn’t remembering the good and forgetting the bad, love is remembering the whole
Love isn’t about regrets
Love isn’t about forgetting, love is about forgiving the grief
I wonder what you think ? Do you have any thoughts on what love isn’t?
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Facing Family at Thanksgiving
November 21, 2007 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Loneliness, Guilt & Depression
The holidays are a wonderful time for family, but when someone is missing forever then the emotional drain on coping with their absence can be very high. So here are some tips from someone who is learning to cope with family gatherings
F = Families may change in who is present but family remain a loving bond to ease the pain.
A = Allow yourself to talk about them, relive memories so that they are part of the day.
M= Mend bridges – often when a death happens and people cope with the grief differently, quarrels can occur…if they have with you, …read more
