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		<title>How to Solve Money Worries Blog Carnival</title>
		<link>http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/how-to-solve-money-worries-blog-carnival-9/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2007 15:57:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Financial Tips]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When grief hits one of the hardest parts is facing up to the money worries that you may face on the death of your partner&#8230;well each week I publish articles that people send in to help widows face the money problems and find a way through&#8230;
Eric@APennyCloser.com presents The Downside to Debt Consolidation Loans posted at A Penny Closer.

Rodney Burge &#8211; Marketing Strategies presents See What You Want posted at Lori Prokop &#8211; Keyboard Culture, saying, &#8220;This article from Lori Prokop at http://www.keyboard-culture-lori-prokop.com is a powerful, quick reminder of how achieve the results you want in life.&#8221;

Daily Idea presents How to [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When grief hits one of the hardest parts is facing up to the money worries that you may face on the death of your partner&#8230;well each week I publish articles that people send in to help widows face the money problems and find a way through&#8230;<!-- Carnival Submission --></p>
<p><strong>Eric@APennyCloser.com</strong> presents <a href="http://apennycloser.com/2007/09/24/the-downside-to-debt-consolidation-loans/">The Downside to Debt Consolidation Loans</a> posted at <a href="http://apennycloser.com">A Penny Closer</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Rodney Burge &#8211; Marketing Strategies</strong> presents <a href="http://www.keyboard-culture-lori-prokop.com/2007/08/see_what_you_want.html">See What You Want</a> posted at <a href="http://www.keyboard-culture-lori-prokop.com/">Lori Prokop &#8211; Keyboard Culture</a>, saying, &#8220;This article from Lori Prokop at http://www.keyboard-culture-lori-prokop.com is a powerful, quick reminder of how achieve the results you want in life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Daily Idea</strong> presents <a href="http://dailyidea.tv/2007/09/27/money/how-to-get-the-best-deal-on-a-new-car/">How to Get The Best Deal On A New Car</a> posted at <a href="http://dailyidea.tv">Daily Idea</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Steve Faber</strong> presents <a href="http://opportunitiesaplenty.com/Debt_Blog/2007/09/_college_consolidation_loans_you_could_b.html">- College Consolidation Loans – You Could Be Paying Too Much For Your Education; After You’ve Been to College</a> posted at <a href="http://opportunitiesaplenty.com/Debt_Blog/">DebtBlog</a>, saying, &#8220;Student loan provider Nellie Mae reports that the average undergraduate debt upon graduation is now up to $27,600. If you’re one of these students with crushing student loan obligations what can you do? You can just gut it out and pay off your loans, or you can default and leave your lender hanging.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>FIRE Getters</strong> presents <a href="http://firefinance.blogspot.com/2007/09/top-5-money-mistakes.html">Top 5 Money Mistakes!</a> posted at <a href="http://firefinance.blogspot.com/">FIRE Finance</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Warren Wong</strong> presents <a href="http://www.whatithinkabout.com/what-do-you-actually-buy-with-money/">What Do You Actually Buy With Money?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.whatithinkabout.com">Personal Development for INTJs</a>, saying, &#8220;What do you actually purchase when you exchange money for some item? The answer isn&#8217;t as obvious as you may think!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>karyn</strong> presents <a href="http://www.finance-123.com/2007/09/29/stop-saving-for-college/">Stop Saving for College!</a> posted at <a href="http://www.finance-123.com">Finance 123</a>, saying, &#8220;It is very important that parent&#8217;s don&#8217;t begin saving for their children&#8217;s college education until their own retirement is secure.  This post will explain why.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Ralph Jean-Paul</strong> presents <a href="http://www.potential2success.com/develpomentaltoughness.html">Develop Mental Toughness</a> posted at <a href="http://www.potential2success.com">Potential 2 Success</a>, saying, &#8220;MVPs, CEOs, extraordinary leaders, and successful people of all kinds have it and so should you. Develop, strengthen and master your ability to perform under pressure, bounce back from failure, and excel in life&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Henry Bagdasarian</strong> presents <a href="http://www.identity-theft-awareness.com/identity-theft-fear.html">Managing Identity Theft Fear </a>posted at <a href="http://www.identity-theft-awareness.com">Free Identity Theft Prevention, Detection and Fraud Solutions</a>.</p>
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<p>That concludes this edition.  Submit your blog article to the next edition of <strong>how to solve money worries</strong><br />
using our blog <a href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/submit_1446.html">carnival submission form</a>.</p>
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		<title>What being love brought to my life</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2007 20:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Comfort Yourself]]></category>
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Love brought

Laughter at even the silliest things
Tears of joy at the happiest times
The feeling of being wanted, the feeling of belonging
Days  that seemed to fly by&#8230;
The feeling of being safe
Pain when I thought my heart would explode 			 

and love brought a flood of tears when we were parted&#8230;
What did love to bring to you?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love to remember the great things of being in love, I use it to balance out the pain of losing someone.</p>
<p><em><strong>Love brought</strong></em></p>
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<li>Laughter at even the silliest things</li>
<li>Tears of joy at the happiest times</li>
<li>The feeling of being wanted, the feeling of belonging<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1187205943&amp;_wpnonce=e24f65f5a8&amp;ID=198&amp;action=view&amp;paged=3" id="file-link-198" title="lovingcouple.jpg" class="file-link image"><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/11/lovingcouple.thumbnail.jpg" title="lovingcouple.jpg" alt="lovingcouple.jpg" align="right" /></a></li>
<li>Days  that seemed to fly by&#8230;</li>
<li>The feeling of being safe</li>
<li>Pain when I thought my heart would explode<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1187205943&amp;_wpnonce=e24f65f5a8&amp;ID=198&amp;action=view&amp;paged=3" id="file-link-198" title="lovingcouple.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			 </a></li>
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<p>and love brought a flood of tears when we were parted&#8230;</p>
<p>What did love to bring to you?</p>
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		<title>How Steve Irwin&#8217;s Widow is Coping</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 12:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is coming up to a year since the untimely death of Steve Irwin. The anniversary of the death is an awful time, and I think it a wonderful idea for Steve Irwin&#8217;s widow, Terri Irwin is taking the family back to the place they had their last family holiday together. The Sydney Herald reports
&#8220;Friends say Terri Irwin is determined to help her children cope as best they can.With Bob, 3, Bindi, 9, and two family assistants, she spent a short time in Cairns on Friday, stocking up on final supplies before chartering a plane which was heading to a [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is coming up to a year since the untimely death of Steve Irwin. The anniversary of the death is an awful time, and I think it a wonderful idea for Steve Irwin&#8217;s widow, Terri Irwin is taking the family back to the place they had their last family holiday together. The <a href="http://www.smh.com.au/news/people/steves-top-spot/2007/08/04/1185648205757.html">Sydney Herald</a> reports</p>
<p>&#8220;Friends say Terri Irwin is determined to help her children cope as best they can.With Bob, 3, Bindi, 9, and two family assistants, she spent a short time in Cairns on Friday, stocking up on final supplies before chartering a plane which was heading to a remote wilderness region in northern Queensland&#8230;.As she comes to grips with her first tough year as a widow and single mum, Terri Irwin is determined to shield her<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1186315201&amp;_wpnonce=9f82798422&amp;ID=437&amp;action=view&amp;paged" id="file-link-437" title="claspedhands.JPG" class="file-link image"> 			 <img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2007/03/claspedhands.thumbnail.JPG" title="claspedhands.JPG" alt="claspedhands.JPG" align="right" /></a> children from media attention.&#8221;</p>
<p>What a wonderful way to celebrate the happy times they had together but also allow the family to grieve in private.</p>
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		<title>Dealing with Negative Thoughts</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2007 10:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Loneliness, Guilt & Depression]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[David Taylor an author has these 3 tips to help us try and overcome depression or negative thinking. I thought I would share them with you
1. Separate out the emotion you feel in the thought by looking at it As-If you  were observing it from the outside – say to yourself “How fascinating, I am  having a negative thought.” Instantly, it reduces.
2. Ramp up positive  emotions by using words like “sensational”, “awesome” and “fantastic, and reduce  negative emotions through words like “peeved”, “miffed” and “mellowed”. Next  time your partner upsets you, say that you feel [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David Taylor an author has these 3 tips to help us try and overcome depression or negative thinking. I thought I would share them with you</p>
<p>1. Separate out the emotion you feel in the thought by looking at it As-If you  were observing it from the outside – say to yourself “How fascinating, I am  having a negative thought.” Instantly, it reduces.</p>
<p>2. Ramp up positive  emotions by using words like “sensational”, “awesome” and “fantastic, and reduce  negative emotions through words like “peeved”, “miffed” and “mellowed”. Next  time your partner upsets you, say that you feel &#8220;slightly grazed&#8221; – the emotion  is less, immediately.</p>
<p>3. Wherever you are, bring yourself back to the  now, the present – give your full attention to the person you are speaking to, to the tv, to the blog, hey, to that small mark on the wall. It is impossible to  be present, really present, and feel negative.<br />
I like these as it shows that we can control the way that we are thinking</p>
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